Wake windows and naps during the day

What are your wake windows and nap times? My boy seems to not want to take any day time naps anymore. He sleeps all through the night from 8pm-7am. Trying to workout what to do during the day now

He’s 11 months tomorrow

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Wake windows 3hours.

She has two naps a day..
10-11:30
2:30-4

She also goes down at 7-7:30pm and wakes at 6:15am

2 naps a day.
Wake around 6pm first nap at 9am
Wakes around 10.15ish so next nap around 2pm hopefully for another hour/90mins then bed between 7-7.30pm.
So wake windows range between 3 to 4 hours x

Hi love I wouldn’t go from wake windows.

Look at their total 24hr sleep need for their age. If he’s getting 11/12 overnight he won’t need that much in the day.

All awake window is … is the pressure they require to fall asleep.

So one baby their age may need shorter or longer then yours.

This is my post on it ❤️

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwfnEoPMu9V/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Not sure about not needing naps if he’s sleeping well at night. At 11 months old they need 11-12 at night PLUS 2-3 hours of day sleep. My boy does anywhere from 11-13 hours at night, and has at least 2 hours of day sleep. First wake window 3 hours with 1.25 hour nap (approx) then 3.5 hour wake window with another 1.25 hour nap. 3.5hrs before bed too😊

11 months the 24hr sleep need is 11-14hrs so if they do 11 hours overnight they don’t need anymore then 3 hours. Some may only need an hour and some might need the 3… please don’t go from other peoples routines ❤️

We have 2 naps. Wake windows tend to be 3 to 3.5 hours.

Wake up at 6am
First nap between 9 and 9.30 for 2 hours.
Second nap around 2 for about an hour.

Bedtime around 7/7.30pm

Hello mums
My son is 11 month he got really bad eczema he wakes up 3 4 time in the night scratching what can I do to help him sleep well please

@Kalkidan does he get a bit hot on a night? My boys flares up when he gets hot. If not might need to change your creams. There's an eczema group on here you should join x

I’d take that! Our WW keep getting longer and longer - now at 4hrs so I struggle to fit in two naps and get him to bed at a sensible time 😂 Then he wakes a lot overnight

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