The lack of common sense in this group...

Some of you need to get off the internet and go talk to people outside

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That’s a bit rude. The point of this is for people to have a place to come and ask questions they’re not looking to be judged. And if you’re going to try and shame people at least have the decency to own it rather than hide on incognito.

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I feel this is uncalled for. If you’re not happy with the group, then you can leave. I think this is a really good forum where people can ask other people in similar situations questions, with no judgement and where no question is stupid

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I’ve been struggling with depression and feeling alone, I don’t ever Interact with posts but it’s so nice to be so reassured by reading other strong beautiful women’s struggles. It makes me feel less like giving up. If the group isn’t for you, that’s completely ok, but it helps women like me and I’m very grateful and love this group. X

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Not sure that a lack of common sense is the problem, maybe a lack of empathy, kindness and a filter on your part is the issue here 🤔

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Your entitled too your own opinion but personally I would have kept that one too my self .
This is supposed too be a community for women too support each other share advice and lift each other up weather your pregnant or in postpartum or have older children it can be very hard and some people can’t actually go talk too people outside .
If you don’t have Nothing nice too say then I wouldn’t bother saying anything at all . You never know how some words can affect others in different stages of there journeys 😐

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🤣😅😅😅😂. What a funny post. Loooools

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Ofc it’s an incognito posting this

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