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Making this post as a way for us ladies to get things off our mind. What’s been weighing heavy on your shoulders? Maybe some of us can relate/have advice! Feel free to message me🫶🏽

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We chose to put our toddler in a Montessori school instead of a traditional daycare and today was his first day. He seems to be doing fine, but I did not realize how much extra stuff the parents have to do and I'm worried I'm going to be that mom who always forgets that it's "bring a can to school day" or whatever, because I work full time. My son is too young to realize right now, but I remember feeling shame as a little kid when I didn't remember it was show and tell or that I was supposed to wear a certain color shirt and my mom hadn't made sure I was ready. My mom and I both have ADHD, and I'm really starting to worry about how my issues are going to impact my son.

Bd has disappeared on me going on 2 weeks now I literally know nothing called left text no answer so assuming he skipping out on us something he said he wasn’t going to do trying hard not to think about it so I want stress out the baby I’m 9 weeks last time we talked and seen each other everything was fine I just wish I knew something say you alive say you hate me say you don’t want to be a father somthing but nothing. If you reading this send postive vibes

oh no, I’m so sorry about all this going through you kind mind & messing with you mentally. Prayers you WILL make it to your appointment safe & sound. After all it was a dream but be extra cautious and don’t go on your phone while on the road just so you’re extra aware!

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

I need an AI app recc to talk to.

I have no family. I have no real friends. Just one that I text. But she’s 8 years younger and isnt a mom. I genuinely don’t talk to anyone other than my partner and our toddlers. I’ve seen some people use AI? Or a chatgbpt? I dont know but if someone could suggest an app that I can just talk to… I would love to have a friend or something instead but this is probably for the best…

Hey!

Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .