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Cómo hacen ustedes para alimentar a sus bebés, me siento muy frustrada, porqué tengo miedo de darle pedazos grandes y que se pueda ahogar, tiene 8 meses y me frustra mucho mirar videos dónde los bebés ya mastican su comida y yo sigo con machacado, ayuda aaaa, por favor 🙏 😪

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Nooooooo, nooooo y nooooo cremeeeee noooooo
Todo lo que ves en redes es muy aparte de ti y tu bebé… el es diferente a los demás … deja que crezca poco a poco y ya llegara el momento en el que “maztique” por andar igual de traumada que tu estoy de stupid dandole trozos a mi bb … por mas blandito que este … ellos tragan y andale que se me ahoga … fueron los 2 segundos mas aterradores de mi vida …
Asi que mejor dejate de boberias de internet … y ya sea papilla o “machacado” pero todo a el
Tiempo y etapa de tu bb … mas vale

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Yo fui cambiando las texturas poco a poco tb es cierto que antes de los 9 meses tenía ya 6 dientes y metía unos bocados. Tu no te aceleres que poco a poco irás viendo

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Dejalo tocar todo y come lo mismo junto a el. Hace toda la diferencia.

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No le tengas miedo a las texturas ni a los trozos. Muchas veces les da mas miedo eso y no ofrecen variedad de texturas y luego se quejan que son selectivos con su alimentación. Tener dientes no es necesario. Ellos mastican.

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Como dice Cinthya cada bebé es diferente poco a poco ellos mismos te van guiando, mi bebé fue prematura y el pediatra me dijo que para nada podía iniciar con blw así que iniciamos con papillas, ya tiene un año y ya comenzamos con los trozos muy cocidos pero de repente todavía le doy machacado.
Ten paciencia, solo si trata de darle alimentos variados y no todo lo que vemos es internet es de utilidad

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a mi hijo mayor le di trozos y bastones y el pediatra me explicó que es parte de el aprender a deglutir el que se "ahoguen" en su instinto esta el regresarlo y eso les ayuda a que ya de mayores no se ahoguen en realidad. Mi pequeño tiene 3 años 8 meses y si al principio como dices en esos 2 segundos sientes que se te va la vida pero si los dejas sólitos lo resuelven y ahora es capaz de comer una manzana a mordidas, una pieza de pollo no tiene que ir desmenuzada.
Eso si tu debes estar cerca y atenta a que solo sea ahogo por instinto para poder ayudarles si no es así créeme no te arrepentirás de dejarlos comer sólidos suaves.

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Infórmense con nutriologas materno infantiles y sobretodo. actualizados. Los pediatras NO buscan actualizarse en la alimentación.

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Yo intente mucho con las papillas pero no quería comer y veia mi comida y la quería, con todo el miedo del mundo empece con trozos muy blandos de toda la comida siempre al pendiente de ella, si parecia que se ahogaba pero con la tos unos segunditos y se recuperaba u seguia comiendo muy feliz....pero prueba lo que a ti y a tu bebé se les adapte

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Hola mamis!!! Sigan mi cuenta en Instagram para recetas y típs de alimentación complementaria 💖✨💖✨ @elliebabyfood

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I've finally done it

I have finally done it. I have finally become the trope, the stereotype.

I have become bitter, resentful, and very overwhelmed and overloaded. I am very unhappy and hit burnout. And I snapped at my husband last night. I work full-time, and work has been very busy so im working late a lot. Im also in grad school. I also have a toddler that has become VERY clingy with me. My husband works shorter days but commutes, so he usually gets home after me by an hour or more. When he gets home, he usually heads to the restroom for at least 30 mins when he gets home. And now my toddler doesnt want anything to do with him. So im doing all the toddler duties until bed. I dont get 5 mins to myself. Not for almost 2 years. I finally hit my wall. I have also, somehow, become my MILs medical ride service and she somehow has an appt every week, it seems?! Shes not sick!! My husband was complaining that he needs to change routine to fit in a workout sometimes, and I lost it. I have been BEGGING for 5 mins to myself for months. I have been telling him how im not good, im going to burn out for months. And between his attitude and him complaining (which really got me b/c he blames me for not being able to work out?! Saying I need help when he gets home so he just cant workout now) I just lost it completely. I told him how unfair my life has become and I have the entire mental and emotional load and it is just not fair. He got mad at me and said "hes trying" when hes literally not trying at all. What do I do?? No one is taking the load from me! And im done and dont know what to do now.
I do not like this version of me.

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AITA?

This isn't a major issue, just wondering if I'm being a bit of an asshole.

• I do shift work, 5 out of 7 days, full-time.
• My partner works from home (mostly, sometimes he goes into the office) M-F, full-time.

Anyway, whenever I have a day off during the week he gets in his feelings when I make myself food (breakfast and lunch) but not him. His reason is he's working, I'm not - Which is fair but I've asked him how many times on a weekend has he gotten up, on his day off and made me breakfast and a lunch to take with me to work? You guessed it, 0.

So basically, just because I'm at home I don't think the responsibility to feed him should automatically fall on me when he manages to feed himself just fine while I'm at work.

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Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

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If your partners parent passes away

And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?

Not my situation!

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Big vent!

Hi mums.
I'm a first time mum in my 40s to twin boys.They are almost 5 months old and the biggest miracle in my life!
I am struggling!!!
I'm pretty sure I have ppa as my pregnancy was a very high risk and all I remember was crying from anxiety of all the ifs!Thankfully even born at 35 weeks and skinny,didn't need iu time.
My husband is not helping much because he's always too busy with work.He will "look" after them usually between 8pm-12am so I can have a chance to sleep.
He expects me to just sleep when I touch the pillow,even though I hear tje babies crying and him don't really bother because most of the times he'll be on his laptop working.
When I tell him I can't relax to fall asleep because I feel you r neglecting the babies,he says I'm the problem becauae I'm always there with them and don't give them alone time!!
I am angry!!I am furious!!
I can't keep.up.with housework becauae someone alwaya neess me and most of the times they nap I either cook and clean tje kitchen,do laundry or try and take a quick nap.
He doesn't help.around the house,becauae..guess what?always super busy.
I asked him nicely we could clean the house together every Saturday morning so it's easier and quicker for both of us and he said no,because he has a lot of work but probably wants to sleep until 12 or 2.
2 days ago a button of his coat ripped and I told him I'll sew it these days.
Earlier this morning while running late for his work,as always,he weara the coat and told him didn't get the chance to fix the button and sarcastically said..of.course u didn't!!!
I spent all night awake because one of the babies had congested nose and we've been trying to reduce one fees at night.
I wanted to punch him!!He left and I started crying...I cry so much,even at 5 months pp...
I can't go on like this anymoreeeee...
The crying in my ears is constant..my head is always numb..I've gained so much weight and can't find the strength to get back on track..
Even if I try to.find a therapist to just talk,is it gonna help?I really don't know😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

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