1 year old

My 1-year-old is all of a sudden crying and screaming when we go out in public. He never did this before. I feel like a bad mother. Should I take him to the doctor?

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Id say if there’s no physical indications of any illness (rash, redness, etc) it’s most likely the typical toddler transition. My little one started doing that when we go out and it’s just because she wants to explore and touch everything. We stopped taking a stroller on outings since she almost never stays in it or throws a fit when trying to strap her in. We usually just carry a small Fanny with a small pack if wipes, diapers and teether snacks. She’s slowly getting In the habit that if she’s going to be out of the stroller she’s going to be walking and has to hold one of our hands. And it seems to be working right now for us. Try just having the baby walk next to you or if you give your toddler the freedom to. Walk a few steps in front of them and then reach your hand out and say “ok let’s go” to indicate you’re giving the permission and it’s alright.

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