Baby food vent

My baby is 6 months and my family is super excited and on my neck about feeding her purées. I started oatmeal at 5months due to the pressure I was getting because my doctor okayed her at 4months. She is in the 98percentile for height but 14% for weight so I wanted to increase her weight. She loves the oatmeal and I give it to her once a day. Her poop is starting to smell horrible and I know it’s not a reason to not feed her but that is just one small reason… my baby is ebf and I’m really not ready for her to start eating purées 3x a day. I want my breastmilk to be her main source of food. I just want to start small but the pressure is real for her weight gain.

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You don't have to jump right in 3 times a day. We have been doing 2 oz once a day and a little bit of cereal. I just wanted her to try everything as early as possible. Do whatever you feel is right, but just start small. One jar of food is 4oz, so just split it before you feed and save the second half for the following day.

Wait till she tries something she likes and gets pumped up over it, it's so funny!

Yes, I think you’re intuition is spot on. You’ll have to find a way to explain to others, family and doctors alike, that you’re going at the pace that you deem the best for her. Really, breast milk SHOULD be her main source of food for the full first year. People really rush the solids, which I also find really annoying. My boy is 6.5 months and we’re just now kind of dabbling with a bit of bone broth and tiny bits of mashed egg. He’s just not really into it yet, and I feel no reason to push it. Do what you feel is best!! You’re in charge 😀 and your intuition is better than anyone else’s

My baby is about 6 months now and he goes back and forth all day with bottle feeding and his baby food

Food under one is just for fun! Breastmilk is her primary food until 1 year. I think you're doing great!

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Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

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Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

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Anyone work for the NHS and does 12 hour shifts? How do you work around childcare and your partners job?

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How often are your toddlers asking for food? My oldest who is 3 just finished a whole plate of food and not even 10 minutes later he’s requesting more food. I know he’s going through a growth spurt, but how do you respond to this.