small vent

i genuiely wish i could stop checking my bd's girlfriend's social media. (she was my bestfrienf and he cheated on me with her) i wish i didn't hate anyone, but i hate the both of them. we been separated since october, but i still feel that pain yk? like the did one of the most painful things to me. she sees me kids whenever he gets them and its like, how are you so okay with what you did? how are y'all so okay with the pain yall caused? 😪

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I'm so sorry this happened to you. 🥺 I wish I had something helpful to say, but I hope it at least helped to have this space to vent.

It is tougher to see this now but she did you and your child/ren a huge favor! You deserve someone who loves you fully... like behind your back too and she just proved he didn't sadly but you have at least 1 child out of it so make the best of it! I'm so sorry this happened to you and you have every right to feel that but hate in your heart hurts you more so try to get rid of it! I am going to pray for you. You deserve to find your happiness too. ❤️ Focus on your family and try to stay positive (as hard as that is... try) and I PROMISE you will eventually be happy again 🙏 HAPPIER ❤️🙏

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