Not sure how to feel or if im being crazy

So ive been driving my mil to work for a little while and ill admit ive been late picking her up here and there but she has always been on time and ive never just not showed up. So i go to get her today and im waiting for like and hour and a half maybe when i finally text her to ask hey you working late?? And then say she walking home cause she got off at 7 and i wasnt there (true i got there at 7:03😑) i texted if she wanted me to pick her up and my phone dies 🤦‍♀️😭 so i drive all the way to her house to find she has a ride there. So i dont know i feel like that was rude and disrespectful she didn't even text me to ask where am i and to say shes going to start walking and she has my number how whould you girls feel if this happened to you

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She's being petty. Trying to create drama

I would tell her she needed to give me at least 10 minutes to get there before she flipped out and assumed I wasn't coming, and if she didn't want to do that, she would need to find a new means of transportation. You have your own life to handle, she shouldn't expect you to be able to show up right at 7:00 on the dot every single time.

She has NEVER done this normally she will message me at 5 after but some days its hard to text that im running late when im trying to get my toddler pack, ready, and in the car

It sounds like she needs to make alternative commuting arrangements now? Why do you make such an effort to take her to/pick her up from work with a toddler as well?? And she could have texted or called you to check where you were? And you waited 90 mins before asking her?! 🥴🥴

she needed to make other arrangements after the second week and she couldn't afford gas money and now with the rude message she sent me cause she was mad for whatever reason. Also i know it was stupid of me to wait that long idk why i did it, i guess i didnt want to drive away for her to call for me to come back.

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