Postpartum depression

What does postpartum depression feel like? I think I’m going through a depressive state where I’m constantly anxious, I don’t feel anything, I feel numb, I love my baby but I don’t know how to feel love if that makes sense?

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That last sentence really hit me, I didn’t establish a bond or feel anything toward my child until she was about 4 months, I didn’t have that connection with her at all. By the sounds of it, it does sound like you are dealing with post partum depression and I’m so sorry that you are. If you’d like to message me I’m here to listen ❤️ our bodies go through so much, we have to give them time to heal, not just physically but mentally aswell x

Hey,
I hear you! I was going through something very similar.

Give it a little while. I’m not sure how many weeks PP you are.

I’m about 9 weeks now, and I’m feeling better. It’s the hormones that messes up with our mind.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are totally capable of feeling the love.

Just give it sometime(differs for every individual).

Once the baby became more responsive, playful, started smiling and longed for my touch….things changed for me.

I suffered with it massively and still not great now . My inbox is open for anyone who wants to chat 😊

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