Night waking

My lo wakes up still most nights for a feed bottle feed! She used to not from around 8weeks and sleep through which she does sometimes do odd days with just a bit of stirring. Partner says not to feed her she will go back to sleep but I feel like if I don’t she won’t go back to sleep! Anyone else’s lo still waking for a feed? Or should I try get her to sleep without a bottle 🤷‍♀️

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I ‘sleep trained’ my little one about a month ago and she was sleeping 7-7 but then we did the 3-2 nap transition and it threw everything off and I started to feed her when she woke after 5am. Now she wakes at 3am and 5am and I feed her as she then will just settle back to sleep so easily. If not it’s really hard for her to self settle as she’s already slept for 9-10 hours. My partner also says to not feed her, but it’s easy to say when he doesn’t even wake when she cries and I have to sit and wait for her to settle.

this is my argument if he was getting up and waking up for an hour if not longer to soothe her back to sleep without a feed then by all means but it always me lol

You don't need to drop a bottle at night yet if they want it 😊 my daughter still has a bottle about 1/2 am and sometimes 5

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