how did you mamas handle the change? i switched my newborn to formula only due to the fact i'm not producing as much as he needs. we were originally breastfeeding in the day and formula overnight but today was the first day i made the switch since i was only able to pump an ounce out of each breast today. my entire pregnancy i told myself i wouldn't be upset if we ever had to do formula instead of breastfeeding but i can't stop being hard on myself (probably postpartum hormones)
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Learn more about our guidelines.i'm also a single FTM so it's been hard trying to pump after his feeds since it's just him and i most times

im not very good with pumping consistently but when I do i get my milk supply to go up to be enough for the day. I breastfeed in betwen for “snack” coz he clusterfeeds rn. They said just keep pumping evey 3hrs or so to get supply up there

I felt like I failed as a mom at first and couldn’t stop thinking about it feeling ashamed, but quickly realized as long as my baby is fed, happy, & healthy it doesn’t matter breast or formula fed.

For sure what MK said. As long as your baby is fed and happy and healthy it doesn’t matter if it’s formula.
I wanted to exclusively BF & pump for our little guy and I just don’t have the supply for it nor do I have the capacity to keep getting up and pumping with how much it hurts, and, how difficult it was for him to latch on at first because he did have a tongue tie even after getting that fixed it’s been a struggle. I get him the Kendamil formula from Target and it’s incredibly close to breastmilk, and he loves it.
PPD does a number on you, and really adds a whole new layer to “you’re not good enough” but you really actually are!!

I stopped breastfeeding due to personal reasons hormones everywhere and felt myself being in a depressed state and that was two weeks and days in I did feel bad and selfish and was hard on myself I even asked my mom if I wanted will I be able to start back again but at the same time I can’t handle the pain of breastfeeding or pumping plus my baby seemed as if she was eating way more then what I could pump like I felt as I was pumping a good amount but she eats a lot so it’s like it wasn’t enough at the same time but she honestly have been great with the transition really not bad at all I also I frozen breast milk that I will try to give here between her months as she go but i only have like 5 lol but as long as your baby is happy and healthy it doesn’t even matter long as you and you’re baby are okay
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