Anyone else still have absolutely no routine for their baby? I see all these posts about first naps, last naps, settling for bedtime, and I don't do any of this! Baby is breastfed, wakes up when he wants, feeds on demand, naps whenever and wherever he falls asleep and comes up to bed with me whenever I go up! Anyone else? It's working so I'm not worried about changing it, bit might try and get some rough routine in place over the next few months.
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I have twins and a toddler and we have no routine at all! I am not even going to try and focus on that until after the sleep regression so I can get an idea of what their sleep needs are.
Also tracking for two babies is too much of a ballache for me right now!

We don’t have any routine either! 14 weeks now and he just feeds when he wants (roughly every 3 hours) naps whenever and comes up with us when we do x

Good to hear its not just me! With my first I think he settled himself into some kind of routine as an older baby (maybe like 8-9 months old?) but until then he just did his own thing (which to be fair was to not sleep anywhere, ever 🤣)

I don't either! Falls asleep anywhere between 9-10:30pm for bedtime 🤷.

No routine and after speaking to hv the other day they don’t need to be in one yet and not to worry about it! X

I got worked up as my little girl isn’t in a routine at all and saw so many posts about babies in a perfect routine. But now I’ve spoken to my other mum friends I’ve chilled out and just letting her lead the way! She feeds every 4 hours but wakes up, naps and goes to bed at different times every day x

No real routine! (He's 12 weeks) I've tried to but last night he fell asleep at 10.30 but was due a feed at 11, and there I was waiting and he never woke up! Ended up going to bed at midnight with him and he slept through til 7.30 ( apart from a couple of little grumbles in the night). I find if I feed him before he cries for food during the day, he sleeps for longer at night as he's had more calories so that's now my game plan x

So nice reading these comments 😊 I’ve been so worried about not having a routine set for my 9 week old son. We just go with flow at the minute and it works for us xxx

No routine here either! 11 weeks old

Not much of a routine no xx

There is no routine here either. I just go with the flow and whatever he wants

No routine. I'll let my boy give me cues for most things and we tend to go to bed about 10pm and get up about 11am with 3/4 wake ups 🤷 bath every third night as well (unless he needs one sooner) . But besides that. No routine :) we walk and play and sing and sleep when we please 😂

Same, I’m following her lead. I think it’s the best way to go right now anyway

We are exactly the same! Works for us as he just sleeps whenever or wherever we are during the day! 😁

No routine here I thought we had one in the morning and naps during the day but we’ve never had an evening one because my LG doesn’t sleep for more than an hour at a time at night 😂😂

We have no routine other than the last nap of the day when she wakes up we just get ready for bed. That’s normally around 9pm but sometimes not lol. She’s breastfed so feeds on demands which seems to be anytime she looks at me 😂🤣🥲 even at 9 weeks

No routine here either, I follow my boys lead. Feed on demand and nap whenever he is tired! I dont look at wake windows as I stressed with this with my first and it didn't work anyway 😂x

The only thing we do is put our baby into pyjamas around 20:00. Otherwise it's very much a baby led day and night