Tired of being a mom

I completely get where your coming from

You’re not a bad mom, this is a huge adjustment! And it sounds like your experiencing some postpartum depression and anxiety- which can often manifest in short tempers and a desire to just leave and get guilt at the thought because at the end of it all you do love your kid. I would talk to your doc about what you’re going through (if they’re a safe person) and see what they can help with.

I definitely went through the same thing, and pulling out the other side (it took a long time to get diagnosed and treated so my kid was almost 2 at this point) but I realized I actually really loved being his mom, I just needed my brain to stop crapping out on me 🙄

I mean I won’t have the exact same experience bc we’re not the same person, I have a lot of compassion for what you’re going through though, feel free to message me if you want

I feel like at some point every mother goes through this. It’s normal

This sounds like postpartum id talk to your doctor!

I've felt this way off and on (my daughter is 3 now), and it's normal! I feel like it should be talked about more often in general so that those of us with these feelings know that it doesnt make us bad people. Also, like others have said, it could be postpartum depression and/or postpartum anxiety, in combination with what you're already dealing with. If there's a provider you feel comfortable talking about this to, I'd recommend doing that because they could offer some solutions, or at least point you in the right direction.

Also, just want to say it takes a lot of strength to talk about this with us! You're not alone ❤️❤️

Girl this is a reality for many moms especially new moms. You are not alone and honestly once you become a mom your brain will take you to so many different places at once. Just like others have said speak with your doc/therapist etc.
love and light to you, hope you get out of it soon❤️❤️🤗

I feel like postpartum is a societal construct of basically saying women are alone and have to figure it out on their own when becoming a mom.

Our parents and generations before us had HELP and SUPPORT. They didn’t have the endless expectations of hyper independence as a female, PLUS being nurturing and caring for every single thing in the household.

It’s no wonder we feel burnt out when we’re in our motherhood journeys when we’re practically thrown to the wolves.

You’re not alone. It is fucking EXHAUSTING.

If you ever need someone to vent to, feel free to reach out.
We all need outlets, let’s stop suffering alone.

amen! My mom didn’t have a lot of help from her mom so therefore I’ve been left to basically figure it out most times on my own. She helps about once a month if it fits her schedule. Finding a baby sitter is hell. I had to contact 5 girls for an OB appointment tomorrow for my 2.5 year old! 5! And let’s talk about differences now of raising kids versus our parents! I catch so much shit! I’m like mom I’m with you but if other people or a pediatrician find out we’re giving bourbon to the baby on the gums for teething they’ll flip. So let’s try that last or car seat safety! Ugh! Soo different. Also US care for women post partum is one of the worst in the world.

It’s normal to feel this way, I’ve felt the same way for over 2 years now. As above there is so much societal pressure to be this incredible supermum, who’s baby sleeps through the night, eats organic home made meals full of vegetables (and eats every last bite), has no screen time, is emotionally aware, hits every developmental milestone on time etc etc. And us mums are expected to be this perfect,radiant, nurturing, loving figure that never does anything wrong. But they forget we are humans too, with our own emotions, our own stresses and our own lives! I know some people say it gets better but I don’t think it does, I think you just have better days than others. You’re doing your very best, and the fact that you do feel guilty shows what a good mum you are and that you care! So don’t be so hard on yourself. ❤️❤️

I’m 2 and 1/2 years in and still feel this way. Honestly I don’t even recognize myself anymore. I miss my old life. But I do love my son deep. It’s so hard.

Why don’t you find work? Being a SAHM is the hardest there’s no way I could do it. Even if your pay all goes on daycare, you’ll get the chance to recharge your batteries