Baby sleep

My daughter is 7 months old and still wakes up 2-3 times a night. Help!

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Mine too

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mines as well she just started doing that

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Mine too! I need a solution 😭

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Mine too 😫

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My doctor told me to put her down drowsy - with my hand on her she needs to learn how to fall asleep on her own.. I now leave her at night when she wakes when I know she doesn’t need to eat, she eats once a night. Then she’ll eventually fall asleep, she never cries, if she does I would get her but it’s been a couple nights this week and so far it’s going better.

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my son wakes up every hour, crying. The crying gets louder and more hysterical the longer we take to pick him up to soothe him…any suggestions?

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(He’s breastfed and falls asleep at the breast, so there’s not really any way to put him down drowsy. He’s completely passed out by the time he’s done eating and getting burped (which I still have to do otherwise he wakes up ten minutes later, screaming bloody murder because of a gas))

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I feel your pain, we had a good thing going and then he hit 6.5 months and just started waking up all the time. Almost like he's whining in his sleep, he wakes up to feed about every 3 hours which he hasn't done since he was a newborn! Tried feeding more before bed but he won't drink more than 7 oz

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My baby falls asleep while eating too, also breastfed. That’s why I’m trying the wakings at night .. oh no, poor baby!! Do you give him gas meds? I wonder why he is crying so historically? Does hé sleep in Sleepsack? What’s his room temp?

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Same here. It's a whole mess 😩

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Mine too, she doesn't always want to feed when she wakes but moat times she does

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Me too!!!! She’s 7 months

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no gas meds. We’ve stayed away from meds after he threw up on the infant Tylenol doc prescribed a few months ago.

No sleep sack either. He likes to stay cool when sleeping, and also he will try to stand as soon as he wakes up so we’ve tried to keep his legs and arms free when he sleeps.

The thermostat is kept at 73 or 74. Do you think that might still be too warm?

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I hear you, it’s super hard! For us too :-(

Unpopular opinion but I think it’s normal, part of their development. There’s this myth in society that all babies should sleep through the night and whilst that works for some babies yes, it’s not for all. I’ve spent time questioning myself and whether I’m doing things right because baby dreamfeeds a few times a night but recently reading up a lot on the topic and realising that it’s actually very normal.

Our baby slept through the night in the first few months but now dreamfeeds a few times a night - i found it very hard at first (and still find it fairly exhausting) but maybe that’s ok because it’s a necessary phase? Once I started accepting it as normal I found it easier. Not easy, just slightly easier than constantly questioning myself on what was going wrong!

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gas meds has saved me, and you only give 0.3ml .. have you asked your doctor about it? Ask them about the gas meds? I have my girl in a sleepsack and I think it just makes them feel cozy, the one I use isn’t too warm and the arms are open. No the room temp is fine.

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he threw up because he ate already , it is best to give babies meds before eating .

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they can stand with the sleepsack, look up burts bees sleepsack it’s long so they can stand .. you know your baby best, look it up and it’s always worth a try?

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Lol mine wakes 3-5 and will be 7 months in a week

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i believe it is normal. babes are going thru so much development, their sleep might not stay regular until well into their first year and some take even longer. there’s a big difference between what babes are capable of and what they actually do 😅 i was fighting my girl with her wake ups and then i realized that’s just how it’s gonna be sometimes. she usually wakes up 2 or 3 times and i nurse her back to sleep. sometimes i let her cry for 10 min or so and see if she falls back asleep, which she’s starting to do more.

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My baby is 7 months and wakes in his crib at night but sleeps the whole night when he sleeps with us 😩 trying to find a way to keep him in his crib

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Does anyone else’s baby spit up breastmilk but not formula?

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I think Motherhood has made me more bitter than I realized…

This is such a ramble but I don’t know where else to put it all.

I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

Maybe I need a therapist.

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