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No soporto a mi marido

¿Alguien más se ha sentido así? - desde que mi hija nació hace un año he venido sintiendo mucho resentimiento hacia mi pareja, me la paso con mala cara y molesta por todo y cuando el pregunta que tengo y le cuento que me pasa solo acabamos discutiendo, de verdad, hay días como hoy que solo quisiera tomar a mi hija e irme, ¿es normal?

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Holaaa! Hasta ahora a las mamis que he preguntado dicen que es normal. Si quieres hablar, acá estoy... escribeme

Me paso lo mismo todo lo que hacía o decia me fastidiaba siempre de mal humor con él pero esa etapa ya pasara ánimos

Pienso que es un proceso por el cual pasamos todas mi bebe tiene 10 mesesitos y el papá está lejos y aveces siento frustración por que el nos dejo solas, pero luego se me pasa y me doy cuenta que lo mejor es lo que sucede

Holaa, pienso que también nos pasa porque dormimos poco y nuestra paciencia la usamos toda con nuestros bebitos. Intenta encontrar un momento de calma para pedirle apoyo, pedirle tiempos para tener reposo para ti solita, y tiempos de calidad de pareja para volver a reeconectarse emocionalmente.
¿Ya conoces el libro de los lenguajes del amor de Gary Chapman? Si no, te lo recomiendo, es difícil leer siendo mamás, pero los audiolibros son mis nuevos aliados. Y si ya lo conoces, es el mejor momento de la vida para que tu pareja y tu lo pongan en práctica.
Te mando un abrazo de comprensión y ánimo

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