Mi jefe es un ignorante “LACTANCIA”

La semana pasada tuve un problema con mi jefe (dueño) ya que me negaba el uso de la cafetería o cualquier sitio para extraerme la leche. Le dije que la empresa tiene la obligación de proporcionarme un espacio limpio e idóneo para la extracción, lo que hizo fue burlarse de mí a tal punto que salí llorando de su oficina del coraje que tenía. Pasaron 4 horas de las que no me había extraído leche porque no me dejaba, hasta que le imprimí la ley y subrayé mis derechos como lactante. Se sorprendió por su ignorancia y solo me dio 5 min ese día para sacarme la leche porque según era tiempo de almorzar.
Le dije “la ley dice que en 6 horas son 3 veces y cada una de 20 min” y solo le importó de que era horario de almuerzo sin importar las consecuencias con mi salud que podría tener.

A raíz de lo sucedido al día siguiente tuve fiebre y al siguiente se me taparon los ductos mamarios, no fui a trabajar porque obviamente necesitaba de mi bebé.

Ni siquiera después de parir estuve tan sensible como lo estoy en estos días.

Son las 3:48Am, estoy despierta desde la 1:00Am y aún no puedo dormir porque hoy nuevamente tengo los ductos mamarios tapados y esta vez en ambos senos, estoy llorando de la impotencia, del dolor, y mi bebé ni siquiera puede mamar porque está dormido, ya lo desperté pero en la madrugada no mama con suficiente fuerza como para destapar los ductos.

Algún consejo para disminuir el dolor? siento que voy a colapsar.

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Que pena que hayas tenido que pasar por esto :( lo siento tanto! Imbécil tu jefe.

Yo recién estoy embarazada y no sé nada de ductos tapados. Suerte y ojalá encuentres soluciones que te ayuden!

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Ya lo hice y 2 veces pero llega un punto en que a pesar de bañarme con agua caliente, darme masajes y usar el extractor… no saco ni 20 ml y ya no sale nada porque están tapados. Ahora estoy utilizando un recolector mientras doy masajes y me duelen demasiado. 😭

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es horrible! mi Dra. me dijo que también es debido a producto del estrés, el dejar pasar varias horas sin extraerme etc.

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si estas en usa sabes que puedes demandar right?? no tengas miedo si va hacer una temporada mala recoge evidencia y demanda a la compañía pero lo primero guarda grabaciones y evideciaa toma fotos y videos solo asi aprenderan

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de hecho el estrés no ayuda. Tal vez en Reddit puedas encontrar otras soluciones. Mira:

https://www.reddit.com/r/beyondthebump/s/8wJEdLhEvo

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No, no estoy en USA pero en mi país también lo puedo demandar, solo que no tengo pruebas de lo que me dijo solo unas compañeras y para variar su papá es juez.

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gracias ya lo voy a leer.

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Update: opté por traer a mi bebé al trabajo para que me ayude.

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terrible yo si no hubiera tenido miedo y sabia q iva a ganar lo hubiede hecho pero era muy joven y no sabia hacerca de las leyes de este pais

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demandar ocasiona más estrés! Ahorita enfócate en estar mejor para tu bebé 🫶🏽

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correcto! gracias

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