Extra needy baby daddy

Girl you askin the right questions! Cause mine was trying before my 6 week mark hit … it’s been 5 months and I still don’t feel like myself enough for all that 😂 & tell him get in the game they’ll be distracted at least 8 hours, you practically got 2 kids now

They can get a version of post partum that’s like feelings of being left behind and jealousy. It’s a real thing lol, but also obviously really frustrating.

Omg yesss. We had an argument Friday night and he said he feels like now that I got my baby and dog I’m leaving him behind. I said behind where? I’m not leaving! He said I have no time for him. I said dude I have no sex drive don’t you thin that bothers me? It’s my body. I told him I try to make time for him but he’s drinking more so it’s not like I can use his help. And to make matters worse I have to go back to work in 11 days! How am I suppose to feel comfortable with him watching our daughter when he cants stay sober? He swears he’s going to be able to not drink now but idk. Then has the nerve to say come on let’s mKe another baby! WTH….no way!

Listen I totally get it, they get really childish and it’s horrible. I know a lot of them say “that they get jealous now that the baby is the most important person in your life” which like I was really judgemental of and I was like wtf, but then I learned it’s a real thing but also wtf. I totally get the leaving for work thing too, you’re like trying to do everything and he’s throwing a weird tantrum.