Baby going to sleep independently but then wakes frequently overnight and won’t resettle

I’m so unsure what to do at the moment, does anyone else have this? My girl will go down on her own without any fuss, I’m in the room but not doing anything, then she wakes up 3-4 hours (occasionally 5 hours) later and cannot resettle. She’ll fall asleep for a few mins and then wake back up as soon as I try and leave the room. End up giving up and bringing her into our bed which I’m guessing she kind of expects now as she’s coming up for 8 months soon. It’s so confusing though as she is self settling so well. I haven’t sleep trained her but just slowly eased back on the help to sleep and she has learnt how to drift off for naps and bedtime but then we get this nighttime madness.

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Is she teething by any chance? Maybe she just needs that extra comfort , something might be bothering her, gas and teeth are especially at night

Following because my 5 month old is exactly the same! Only difference if he is still in our room but I’m not getting good sleep when he’s in the bed with us.

Could be teething but it’s been like this for a while and no other signs of teething. Will keep checking those gums though!

OMG yes!! My LG who is 8mth next week is exactly like this! Just been googling why she won’t sleep through the night 🤣 can’t remember the last night she didn’t spend at least a few hours in our bed 🤦🏼‍♀️

It’s so so confusing sometimes! Just got to ride it out I guess 🤷‍♀️

Same. Sometimes he goes back quick with a bit of reassurance sometimes it takes aaaages and then he wakes up after 10 mins again. We think he's teething too and he's been pulling to stand so could be a leap but I hope it's over soon!

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