tooth coming in?

my twelve week old is three months in four days. he’s been acting like he’s teething since about 8/9 weeks. is this a tooth? it’s a little white dot on his bottom gums. it’s on the left, there’s a little one on the right too

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Our doctor told us that it can take up to 4 months after seeing the first signs of teething for those first teeth to actually come through.

Yes it could be teething my baby’s doctors confirmed she was teething at 8 weeks old

Same! Mine is 13 ws 2 days and he has been drooling like crazy and only wanting momma 95% of the time. Putting his fingers in his mouth along with his toys!

oh i see it!!

yeah I hope it actually cuts through sooner than later cuz he has been so fussy and clingy. I got him some soothing tablets (teething tablets) and they have been helping.

that’s good!

I'm not looking forward to the breastfeeding with teeth stage lol he is cutting them earlier than all my other kids did.

oh gosh that will suck 😅 i’m not currently breastfeeding but i’m gonna try to get my supply back so hopefully i can soon. before he does get teeth lol

yeah my 5 year old only bit me twice and figured out real fast mom wouldn't breastfeed her if she bit me. So hopefully he isn't a biter or figures it out quickly too. She was older like 9 months

i hope so for your sake lol. i wanted to breastfeed so bad and hoped to until he was a toddler but it just didn’t work out. i got lazy 😭

it's definitely not an easy task sometimes. My 5 year old, I breastfeed her the longest of my 4 older kids. She went til about 2 weeks before her 2nd birthday and I had to stop because of my job. I worked in a battery factory and I was being moved to a higher lead level area and I couldn't risk it. I am hoping to be just as successful with him. My older 3 were all under a year and ended up doing formula as well.

in our community

Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

If your partners parent passes away

And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?

Not my situation!

Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do

Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

Jealous of my husband

I’m so jealous of him and it’s making me resentful. We have a ten week old and I’m jealous that he is at work all day. I’m jealous he can leave for lunch and actually eat an uninterrupted lunch. Take a phone call uninterrupted. Chat with a friend he runs in to uninterrupted. Even go to the bathroom when he wants uninterrupted. He comes home from work when he wants. He’s not on a set schedule. Some days are late some are early. It depends on when he’s done. I’m jealous he can come home at 10pm and shower, eat and go right to bed uninterrupted because I already have the baby asleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything house wise or baby wise because I’ve done it all. Meanwhile I’m covered in puke and crap and smell like rotten milk. When he is home he is VERY active and helpful. So it’s not that. I’m just jealous his world hasn’t changed and mine has I guess. This isn’t something he’s doing wrong so I’m not sure how to get past this. I wish I could keep him home all day because that’s how helpful he is, but I understand he obv needs to work.

Calpol

My mum has just given my 4 year old calpol because he asked for it. He isn’t poorly (although was last week, been fine this week) he just likes the taste of it. My mum didn’t check, didn’t ask, just gave it to him and when I’ve questioned her she said “he asked for it”. Then quizzed 4 year old who said he asked for it because it tastes nice.

How would you react?