Antenatal depression

Anyone else struggling with antenatal depression? Just feeling really forgotten and left out. My sister just had a baby and I feel like me and little bean have been kinda pushed to the side and forgotten about. And I feel like when she arrives its not going to change. My sister lives with my mum and I live with my partner so her baby is gonna get focused on more and my little one is going to be left out.

Could be me just being silly just really getting to me...

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Please speak to your midwife. Perinatal mental health team have been a godsend for me ☺️

I have a midwife appointment on Wednesday and plan to speak to her about it then

It’s scary but definitely worth it. I always just feel like I’m moaning about nothing but getting it off your chest is so helpful

Your baby is and will be loved when she comes. At the moment your sister is in the thick of it so no doubt that’s why so much attention being directed to her. Don’t worry, your baby won’t be pushed out. Speak to your midwife about this - this feeling is more common than you think x

Definitely speak to your midwife, mine has been wonderfully supportive since I spoke to her about it x

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I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

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I bloody hate reflux!

How much milk would you say this is?( after a 6oz bottle) My 3 month old is bunged up, full of yet another cold and it's made her reflux worse.

She's already on gaviscon but that's the most shes ever spat up in one go. She's also been teething for the last few weeks too 🙄