Christmas gifts

So what are you guys all getting your toddlers? I have a 2&3 year old boy and girl. I was thinking some kitchen play set or something but nothing is really yelling boy so what are you guys getting your kids?

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I try to find something in their interest. If you have a more creative child, maybe something artsy like a sketch pad, easel, a chalk wall for their room, musical instruments, music class etc. if you have a child that’s more interested in just moving, dance class, trampoline, a little jungle gym etc, if you have a child who loves food and cooking, a kitchen set is a great idea, a day of cooking classes where the family come together and bake and cook. Try new foods, if you have a kid who loves to build, maybe legos, or Lego land, building cars, etc
My child is more creative so usually I give her something more artsy cause that’s what’s she’s into

They make really cool board games now for kids as young as two or three! My son really likes the cooperative game Snug as a Bug in a Rug. He also still really loves his kitchen he got at 3! We found one that has a small washing machine as a piece of it since he was really into "doing laundry", and opted to not do any fake food (for my sanity). KidKraft makes great ones! 10/10 would recommend a children's digital camera too. You can find ones for under $30 on Amazon!

My kid is obsessed with cars and dinosaurs so we got them a car port ramp thing; and a hooded dino blanket. Additionally we're hanging a swing in our basement 😊

Anyone who ask for my 4 year old wish list, we asked for nothing but educational toys/books, room theme decor (spider-man) and whatever things he’s interested in (such as ninja turtles, power rangers, Blippi, ect,.)

My boy loves the play kitchen (he’s 17 months), I’m leaning towards an indoor climbing frame, the half moon with slide version or an indoor trampoline. I’m also getting him a train set, farm play set and puzzles/books. My daughter is 3 nearly 4 and I know she’d also like the climbing set but I’m also starting to get her a few bits like a hair styling doll and other doll type gifts xx

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