Pelvic pain

Had sex yesterday now I'm spotting pink and worried

I'm mad at myself cuz our baby was fine on the ultrasound on January 4th

Now I'm worried we hurt it

I've misscarried 9 babies in past only two healthy children

I'm just scared

Both cramping and bleeding/spotting seem to be pretty common after sex. Unless your doctor has told you not to have sex it’s supposed to be safe and not hurt your baby. Bleeding is because our cervix’s are full of way more blood than usual and really sensitive, and cramping is because of the contractions caused by orgasming. If you’re worried definitely talk to your dr but try not to stress too much

Haven't seen my Dr yet just an ultrasound tech to date the pregnancy

And I won't have my first appointment until January 16th hoping baby is still ok on the January 4 scan baby had heartbeat but I started spotting last night

Try having sex on your side that seems to work for me and my husband

I would say try not to stress! Although I feel you. I too am having cramps that aren’t really going away but aren’t getting worse, and when I had an ultrasound, they couldn’t find a heartbeat but could see what they called “cardiac activity” so I’m hoping it was just too early to hear baby’s heartbeat
Keeping you in my thoughts ❤️