Short story. Hubby was talking to women. End of 2022

So I felt in my gut(I was right! Duh) hubby was talking to another chick. I was pergo. He planned to meet up with her on our Christmas family vacation!( he didn't but still)So that broke me! Relationships haven't been the same since! I tried that thing where Steve Harvey said, "Give it a year if you can't get over it." Leave or stay( I forgot the rest), but I can't get over it! We talked about it. l. He says nothing but And So. Anywho, what's eating me is just the relationship isn't the same. On his end, we ain't having sex, he hides things, he spends no time with me, he doesn't pick me up from work, he doesn't even care if I eat something. Like basic shit he doesn't care. Like idk wtf! I ask him questions, and it's always I'm asking him stupid questions. I'm so lost

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it sounds like he’s lost interest, and is waiting for you to call quits

i’m sorry girl you deserve to be loved 🥲

I've felt the same way!

This is so sad . You deserve way better & happiness not someone who makes you feel unwanted 🫤

He doesn’t seem remorseful and it sounds like he just doesn’t care. From his behavior I wouldn’t be surprised if he was still seeing other women. Why put yourself through this?

We have kids( i know that doesn't matter. They see and hear nothing). On top of that, so much of my life is his life. I'm trying to do things myself, and he's like, why? I just don't know. And it's pissing me off be I've grown so much within myself that know better, but here I am🤦‍♀️

Could you get him to do marriage counselling? From what Ive read maybe he wont be interested but I know for your own sanity maybe you should try speaking to a professional too for some guidance. Sorry you are going through this. Sending hugs xx

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Leave. That’s really low to even plan on seeing another woman while on vacation with his family.

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