Lost of appetite

Suddenly my 10 month old won’t eat any solids. She had a great appetite and now suddenly she just wants formula or fruit. Before that she had great appetite and she ate absolutely anything I gave her. Anyone else has had something similar?

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Yes exactly the same. She only eats certain things now and spits / plays / throws most of it on the floor. How does your little one sleep at night? My little girl woke a lot last night and wondered whether it was hunger! She used to be such a good eater. Would eat anything x

Yes!! Exactly the same!! Doesn’t want all his favourites just milk and fruit!! X

also her sleep is not great at all. We had such a good nights when she only woke up once for dream feed but now last couple days she literally woke up every 20 minutes.
I don’t know what’s the problem and google says that child might be unwell but apart from her appetite and sleep she is perfectly fine.

are you worried or it’s just me? 😂 This is my first baby, so sometimes I don’t know what I’m doing 😂

I’ve seen a lot of posts about this on the March 2023 babies too .. so I think it’s a phase 🤞🏽🤞🏽 one person saying they are out the other end.

I’ve spoke to a health visitor today and they said as long as what you are giving them is nutritious don’t worry, and hopefully they’ll get their appetite back. My little girl will eat yogurt and fruit so I’ve given her a big bowl of it tonight as she’s not eaten much today. Hopefully her night might improve.

You are talking to the person who worries about everything!!!! I’ve already diagnosed him with autism, dyspraxia……oh and mild deafness!! 😂 I said to my husband that having a baby will literally put me in an early grave with worry and stress 🙈

ha ha!!! You really made me laugh 😂😂

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Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do

Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

Jealous of my husband

I’m so jealous of him and it’s making me resentful. We have a ten week old and I’m jealous that he is at work all day. I’m jealous he can leave for lunch and actually eat an uninterrupted lunch. Take a phone call uninterrupted. Chat with a friend he runs in to uninterrupted. Even go to the bathroom when he wants uninterrupted. He comes home from work when he wants. He’s not on a set schedule. Some days are late some are early. It depends on when he’s done. I’m jealous he can come home at 10pm and shower, eat and go right to bed uninterrupted because I already have the baby asleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything house wise or baby wise because I’ve done it all. Meanwhile I’m covered in puke and crap and smell like rotten milk. When he is home he is VERY active and helpful. So it’s not that. I’m just jealous his world hasn’t changed and mine has I guess. This isn’t something he’s doing wrong so I’m not sure how to get past this. I wish I could keep him home all day because that’s how helpful he is, but I understand he obv needs to work.

NHS job

Anyone work for the NHS and does 12 hour shifts? How do you work around childcare and your partners job?

Toddlers

How often are your toddlers asking for food? My oldest who is 3 just finished a whole plate of food and not even 10 minutes later he’s requesting more food. I know he’s going through a growth spurt, but how do you respond to this.