Period pads

2 months and I’ve got my period what pads do you recommend for extra heavy bleeding as with my first pregnancy I was bleeding that heavy I was using incontinence pads but I can’t find them anywhere(the brand) I’ll be too heavy for nighttime pads as they are too short in length at this rate I’ll be borrowing a nappy off my baby😂

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I wish I had bought more maternity pads! Tesco have cheap ones in a big pack!

Tescos are really good!

Tesco maternity pads!!

Tesco ones are amazing and coop own brand iv found good. X

As others have said Tesco maternity pads are aces. I also highly recommend period pants - modibodi do great high absorbency ones.

Lilets maternity pads!

Try morrisons incontinence knickers, saved me when my waters leaked for 2 weeks and during pp bleeding!!!

I use killers maternity pads OR the black Kotex! They seem to absorb so much and are long too. Xx

Totally meant lilets* 🙈

i tried looking up killers maternity pads as well and thought that’s strange nothing come up😂xx

Hahaha! Sorry lovely! I just proof read before I press send 😅 xx

Definitely lillets maternity pads (purple pack). I used more with my first pp period than after bubs was born. Hoping it is just the first one that is as heavy

I’ve just had my second one & although not as heavy as my first it was still heavy. I wouldn’t have felt comfortable wearing normal period pays, day or night! Not sure I’ll ever go back to normal now. That first period terrified me. I don’t trust a period now 😅 xx

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