Bf broke up with me

I’m 10 weeks away from giving birth. I’ve been crying every day for like a week and super depressed. I don’t know what to do. Everything had seemed fine the last time I spoke to him. But suddenly he just can’t do this anymore.

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Hun I’m sorry to say, but this sounds like he has another girl lined up. This is exactly what my babydaddy did I know it sucks but you gotta get over that because of the baby. I’m also guessing it means he don’t wanna be there for the baby either. I’m not saying it’s the same situation but usually when guys stay stuff like that he either don’t wanna be there for the baby and has another girl. Or he may just be the type where he needs space because it’s a lot of stress having to deal with a baby coming, but if he’s anything like my babydaddy he may js want nothing to do with you or the baby! Hun it’s gonna be okay, you don’t deserve this! Your a strong women and deserve to be loved and so does that baby. I hope he gets everything sorted for you and that baby’s sake. If not just let him go hun. I know it’s gonna be hard, but you got this!

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remember your going to birth a beautiful baby which will be the real love of your life and show you what real love is. my baby dad hopped in and out of my pregnancy couldn’t make his mind up and now he doesn’t even bother! you don’t need no man just focus on you and bubba it will be your biggest blessing and will love you more than any man. my boy saved me he really did and i have no doubt that your baby will make you the happiest mummy, you’ve got this pop me a message if you ever need to talk! xx

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This was meant to be, accept it love and everything will fall in to place!💓💖

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he wants to be there for the baby I guess. But at the same time I don’t even want to look at him right now. He doesn’t wanna see me or talk to me until she’s born anyways. Which I think is messed up. He’s not gonna be there when she’s born, either. I had suspected that there was another girl cause he would talk about a girl coworker of his a lot and how much he liked her, but when I’d say something he said I was just being jealous. Idk, I have no proof if that’s the case. But I wouldn’t be surprised. Thank you for the kind words, I appreciate it.

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thank you 💕

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I really hope so ♥️

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if he wants to be there for the baby he needs to respect you aswell! he might sort himself out but to be honest it sounds like he’s just trying to get an easy way out and if that is the case just know you are strong and you don’t need that grief in your life especially when raising a child xx

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I know the feeling. My daughter dad ended things also because I was having emotional and psychological issues since being pregnant. I couldn’t stay at the house any more because I felt over worked and alone. So I went to my aunt house and he said I abandoned him. Take heart. You’ll be okay.

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Hun he’s not worth your tears/time if he wants to be there for the baby let him, but I wouldn’t get back with him if he wants to treat you like that. You deserve so much better. You deserve a man who will respect you. Heck and if he don’t wanna be there for the baby I would get him for child support, but that’s totally up to you. Us babymommas deserve better than what we get from these bd. WE DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!

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