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Hi everyone! Can anyone recommend me a daycare that accepts infants? We are looking for a place to enroll our daughter when she turns 8 or 9 months

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I noticed so many are 12-18mo ti start. I'm thinking about a part time nanny to come over but I don't know where to start lol what did you end uo doing

We did a part-time nanny until she was 8.5 months. Then, she started daycare first in the morning only and then until 2:30 pm. She likes daycare. We can see that she is excited to see the daycare director.

We chose a family-owned, small daycare, called Bright Childhood. The space is small, but the director is really good. I had a good gut feeling with her right away, which is was right as my baby is comfortable with her.

https://upwards.com/daycare/bright-childhood

I thought about waiting until 1 year old, but I work full-time and babies tend to be more anxious around strangers starting at 9-10 months. My friend tried to start daycare with her baby when he turned 1. He did not adapt well, and she ended up giving up her work after two months of trying daycare.

We really liked our nanny. Feel free to message me if you would like her contact. She has limited hours as she also has kids of her own. But if you need someone from 9 am to 2 pm, she is really good.

Thanks for the replies. I messaged you earlier and would love to chat more! I am looking for nanny part time and this may work.

Brella

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