Night time nappies

How long do people leave their LO in the same nappy over night? My LO is 3 months and sleeps from 7:30-6:30, with a feed at around 10:30 when we go to bed. I’ve always also changed her nappy before the feed but it wakes her up (if I didn’t change her it would be a dream feed) and I don’t want to disturb her, but also don’t want her to get sore or uncomfortable from a full nappy.

So my question is, am I right to change her when feeding her, or should I leave her in the same nappy from 7:30 to the next morning? When she wakes at 6:30ish, I change her first thing and then she has a feed. Thanks in advance!

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I change right before bed and then as soon as she wakes in the morning!

same! Unless he poos (which he doesn’t ever in the night now)

I change right before bed around 7:30pm and then leave her until she wakes up about 6am, we feed around 2am but I leave her nappy otherwise she wakes up and then I struggle getting her back down xx

I leave mine in hers up to 12 hours overnight so long as she hasn’t pooed. I get more expensive ones for nighttime (pampers) though as she’s only using one a day, compared to the every 3-4 hours for the supermarket ones.

I leave mine up to 12 hours - we use pampers nappies at night and supermarket own brand during the day!

Our routine is bath 7-7:30 fresh nappy, bottle and bed. He then goes till around 7-7:30 the next morning.
He’s 15 weeks x

Another question is if it’s a dream feed is it needed?? I was doing this until one day he was about 9-10 weeks I found I was waking him to give it. One night I said right lets see what happens if I don’t, He went 8-5, the next night 8-5:30 and so on until it was 6-7 nows its usually 7 and our bottle is around 7:30 at night. He continued to gain weight even jumped a centile. X

All night. Lots of nappy cream before bed and she's all groovy x

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