Anyone going through a rough patch with partner?

We aren’t getting on anymore. We have a nearly 6 month old and hardly getting any time to ourselves. I’m exhausted and drained all the time. He plays Xbox and does my head in. He is good with the baby but we are constantly going at each other. I get told I am in the way or never do anything and I think the baby can sense the stress between us. He doesn’t work, doesn’t have any friends, doesn’t leave the house and just stays at home playing Xbox. Just a rant as fed up.

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May I ask why you are with this man if it seems like he bring nothing to the table and y’all are fighting

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so you basically have 2 kids

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Seems like a boy who isn’t ready for parent hood and is in freeze mode. You might need to make the choice for him and either have time apart until he gets his act together or move on all together

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You definitely shouldn’t be exhausted and drained with a man at home with no job!! I’d expect my partner to have all the housework done and cooking! 🤣 and he would as well! Sounds like he needs a wake up call x

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