Weaning

Does anyone else feel like they’re not really progressing with weaning? My LO will eat but she’s not really eating what I would call a substantial amount? If that’s even a thing at this stage 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know “food before one is just for fun”, but then what happens when you reach one and baby still isn’t really interested?!
At a guess I’d say she’ll eat about a tablespoon of solids per meal, is this enough?

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My LO is exactly the same!

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Same here! We’re still on purées as she just doesn’t want solids or to feed herself. Doesn’t help that she’s teething so bad so even milk is a battle but I am curious as to when she’ll really get into it 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Mine won’t even take anything. This morning I tried him with baby cereal and blueberries but he screamed down the whole street. I’m not bothered anymore because I’ve never seen an adult that doesn’t eat

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it’s a relief to hear that mine isn’t the only one! But at the same time I’m kinda wondering when she’s going to start taking an interest 😒 I think I worry for all the wrong reasons sometimes, maybe it’ll just happen when they’re fully ready!

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we skipped the puree stage as she just wasn’t having any of it… but blw still isn’t going that well. I’m curious too! Doesn’t help my worry when I read posts of babies eating really well and there’s me wondering where I’m going wrong 🫠 we also went through a stage of decreased feeds because of teething and it was tough! We’re through that now and I had hoped she’d get into it or atleast be more interested in trying new things but it’s still the same really 😬 I guess it’ll just happen at some point! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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oh no! It’s difficult sometimes. I spend so much time some days preparing different things just to spark interest but my baby couldn’t care less 😅 but yeah that’s true! I’m going to try and stop stressing as much

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I’m also just doing blw, I find after 5 minutes she gets quite frustrated in the high chair and starts banging the food/playing with it rather than putting it to her mouth so I’m guessing with time it’ll come. Like someone said, all adult eat and 4 months is still a long time for them to get a grasp on it. I used to worry a lot about it and still do sometimes but I just think she will start eating one day x

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Mine was exactly the same for ages, I found she preferred breakfast so would just focus on that being a good balanced meal and not worry about the rest of the day, a couple of weeks ago she suddenly started eating more and I think this is linked to her crawling/trying to walk and needing the energy now. There's still plenty of time before 1!

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A portion size is literally the size of their hand so they really don’t need alot :)

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Mine isn't fussed either, we're doing a combo of blw and purees but she's not bothered about either! Thought she'd love weaning as she loves her milk

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mine is the same. She’ll initially show a bit of interest but it’s more of a game to her. But then I guess exploring textures etc and playing with the food is progress too. And yeah you’re right, 4 months is nothing in the grand scheme of things. It’ll come, I need to stop stressing and take my own advice 😅 x

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that’s a really good idea actually. I may give that a go rather than focus on too much and overcomplicate things. And like you say, there’s still time for things to progress!

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that’s reassuring to know, thank you! :)

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I had the same thought. My little girl has always taken big feeds and I just assumed she’d be more interested in solids 🫠

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