Baby daddy previous cheating issues
Firstly please don’t hate 😅
okay so I know this probably isn’t the best way to go about things but I can’t trust this man AT ALL - let me tell you why.
So we’ve been together for nearly two years and a couple of months into our relationship I found that he was messaging multiple girls online for nudes. I stayed because he had his excuses. A few months after that i found that he’d been doing it again but on a different app, I honestly don’t believe he ever stopped. I also found that he’d payed money for photos of other girls, at which time he was living with me and was temporarily unemployed so it hurt just that little bit more. But again I stayed because I was pregnant by then, he done it AGAIN a few months later. I check what I can check to put my own mind at rest and I haven’t found anything in a while, until recently there was a new girl on his blocked contacts on Snapchat so now my head is running and I genuinely believe he’s back to his ‘old’ ways.
So I was wondering if anyone would work with me to prove that he is or isn’t doing it again. I’m not asking anyone to get all sexy with my man or anything like that but to flirt just enough to prove his ways. Our baby is due in two months so if I need to leave this man I need to know soon so I have time to provide the best life possible for the baby.
Absolutely hold my hands up and say it’s 100% my fault that I am in this position, I should’ve left a long time ago but I’m still young and naive so here we are. I’m currently in a position where I massively financially rely on this man, especially for our baby’s sake. I have no family support system really and simply have nowhere else to go immediately.
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I think instead of trying to catch him again, you should leave. This is clearly going to continue to bother you as you can’t move past it and will think anything he does he is hiding something. Using your money to pay for picture of naked women is disgusting
I would honestly say just prepare to leave. He’s showed you more than once, that there would be no change. Either way he knows it’s a very high chance you will come back no matter what he gets caught doing.
Hey love, I kind of understand where you’re coming from. Leaving is hard, especially when it’s comfortable and there is a baby on the way. Get yourself ready mentally and financially to do this alone, but surround yourself either strong women who will support you. Your first step was reaching out to us on this app. Some of us are willing to be there to help how we can. This man isn’t happy with himself so he’s looking for validation elsewhere. That has nothing to do with you. Find a way to get some income and do your research on assistance in different ways (housing, food, baby supplies). There are people that want to help, but for your health and the health and safety of your baby, do what you have to do. The baby can feel Your stress, she is too important to have to endure that. Make her entrance into this world as peaceful as you can.
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