Anyone else got to get a reception child and 1 year old out the door by 7:10ish 🫠

Got to leave them at their carers for 7:30 to get to a job as early as possible (self employed cleaner) and I just can’t be feckin arsed. They’re still asleep, I dread the morning routine and so today, I’m leaving later and letting the demons sleep a bit longer. Considering going school hours only 😭

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I'm a sahm but I'm up from 5.30 with my 10 month old and wake up my older 2 at 6.45 to leave at 7.40 to get them both to school on time. When I was working both older girls were up by 6.30 to be at a childminders for 7.30ish so completely understand how you feel

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I have a 10 month old, 3yr old, 5 yr old,

Don’t as me how but we get up at 7 and out the door for 8:20 to get to school,

I’m currently in the process of opening a playroom and I will only be working within the school hours as there is no1 else to take or get my children x

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Ok not the same ages - my eldest is 11 and can sort himself and my youngest is 3
We leave at 7:30ish to take her to the childminder and my eldest and me to work (I work at his school)
My youngest basically gets up and dressed and goes to the childminders where she is fed and that eases some stress!
We have to be organised we HAVE to have everything sorted the night before!
I also find that once we have got into a routine they don’t need waking etc coz they wake naturally - obviously as the end of terms approaching we’re all feeling the drain so that may feel different etc but in general the more you do something the more it becomes the norm

If you can afford the cut in pay then absolutely be school hours only for the short term as it gives you a less stressful day etc

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Damn that sounds bloody awful and what a long day for the child going to school. Have any of the teachers noticed she’s tired in class?

If you have the option to, I think you would all probably benefit from school hours only. What time are you all waking up? Sounds stressful as hell!

If you didn’t want to do school hours, could you do overnight/night shift hours instead and work opposite hours to your partner (if you have one)?

My daughter started in September, I wake her up at 8am, she gets dressed and brushes her teeth herself and will come downstairs to watch some cartoons whilst I sort her lunch. We leave at 8.30am, it’s a 6 min drive and she’s at her school by 8.40am when the classroom doors open. I think she’d be a zombie if I tried to wake her up earlier 😄

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3.5 year old and 16 month old to get ready solo to leave the house at about 7.20. It works well if I get up at 6.15 and get myself ready then get them up at 6.45, but of course they regularly wake up much earlier and getting everyone ready takes 10x longer!

Can you prep ahead a breakfast so it's super quick and something to just grab?

Sometimes I long for the days when I just had to get up and get myself ready 😂

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I have a 2.5 Yr old and 15 month old twins and I literally am dead by 8am when I get back home yo work after the nursery drop off. I usually get up at 6 so I get their small brekkie ready, put their clothes out, and make my coffee. I am militant in the morning, I wake them at 6:50 latest if they not awake, change them one by one, shut the door so no escape from the room. Then in highchairs/at table to eat. Brush teeth and Go! We out by 7:35 latest. It's exhausting. I dread my oldest starting school and having uniform and 2 drops offs!

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Yes!!! I have a reception child and a just turned one year old out the door for 7 😩 Wednesday to Friday!! It is really hard work especially as it's dark now on the mornings. Wednesday is our long day and my son is also at after school club. We are all ready for an early night when we get home

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I only do the long days twice a week, school hours two more days a week which is nicer and easier. I hate getting myself up early so it’s extra crap getting two little ones who don’t want to get up too 😂😮‍💨 may well look into just at least giving them extra half hour in the long mornings.

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@Neena does she not have breakfast. My son goes to nursery , starts at 9 but have to be up by 7:15 at latest so he can wake up watch his cartoons and have breakfast. Days I work I start at 8 so we even have to leave house by 7:20 at latest. He will get breakfast at grandparents on those days I work xx

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yes she will either have toast, porridge or scrambled eggs.

Soon as she wakes she will get up to pee and then brushes her teeth. Then back into bedroom, gets undressed from pyjamas and into her uniform which I hang on the door.

When she comes downstairs around 8.10 I will have her breakfast ready for her and she eats it whilst watching cartoons and I can tidy kitchen.

If your son starts nursery at 9, why up so early? Is the nursery far from where you live?

When she used to start nursery at 7.30, I used to get her up at 6.45, only because the nursery used to be a 15 min drive.

Maybe because we’ve been doing this routine since she was 3 she knows not to mess around? 🤷🏽‍♀️ I do have friends who tell me about their morning battles so I am thankful she doesn’t mess around lol

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@Neena we wouldn't get anywhere haha. Takes his time with breakfast. He wakes up early anyway before 7. Nursery is close by.
When did she start dressing herself. X

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I’m finding myself becoming easily frustrated, annoyed, and placing a lot of blame on my partner for many things. Now I’d get it if he was rubbish but he’s not - he has the baby straight away when he gets home from work, he lets me get ready and shower before he goes to work, he pitches in with the chores and gives me any time I ask for off. He doesn’t go out loads either.

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We have had many conversations and he has tried to take loads off me but it never feels like enough for me to stop being annoyed with him.

Am I experiencing some sort of post partum mental health issues? I find myself upset and crying a lot. any advice would help.

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Parenting 24/7 is harder than going to work full time?

I’m having a debate with my partner as he’s done nothing to help since. Our 14 month old was born, I’ve done it all alone all day and all night. He gets a break when he comes in from work all night I never get a break
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THIS DUMB 🍑 MF

LET ME BREAK IT DOWN 🤣🤣

THIS MAN DRIVES AN ELECTRIC CAR WHERE HE CAN PLUG HIMSELF IN (NORMALLY DOES TO DO DOORDASH ETC)
AND IT HAD A SPOT TO WIRELESSLY CHARGE
SOME HOW WITH 4 HOURS OF WORKING HE DIDN'T EVEN MAKE 20 BUCKS TO WASH CLOTHS ANOTHER RED FLAG

TWO NIGHTS AGO
HE CLAIMS TO GO OUT TO WORK. HANGS UP ON ME MID CONVERSATION 👀👀

4 HOURS PAST I'M GETTING SLEEPY STILL HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM
IT'S LIKE 1:30AM I TEXT HIM NIGHT I'M MAD CONFUSED ALMOST AN HOUR LATER I ANT HEARD FROM HIM SO I CHECK MY TEXT.
THE SHIT SAYS "PHONE OFFLINE" AND SHOWS THE TIME FRAME MY TEXT DIDN'T SEND
SO I START CALLING TO CONFIRM CAUSE I THOUGHT SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HIM. HE'S BEEN IN 2 CAR ACCIDENTS 👀 NEITHER HIS FAULT

SO I GET FRANTIC MY GUY

3:14 ROLLS AROUND I CALL AGAIN SURPRISE HE PICKS UP.
CLAIMS HIS PHONE DIED WHILE HE'S HANGING OUT AND HAVING A VERY "GOOD" CONVERSATION. HE WON'T TELL ME WHERE HE'S AT OR WHO WITH. MIND YOU THIS MAN CHEATED ON ME WHILE I WAS 33 WEEKS PREGNANT.

SO AT THIS POINT I'M PISSED OFF AND I TELL HIM I'M HANGING UP CAUSE I LOOK STUPID BEING WORRIED.

HE TURNS AROUND WHILE NOT BEING AROUND THIS CHICK AND FINALLY TELLS ME ALL THE DETAILS.

BTW YES WE MIGHT BE POLY BUT HE'S POSTED HIMSELF AS SOLO POLY WHILE LIVING WITH ME!! HE THINKS I'M. STUPID WITH ALSO THIS SNEAKY SHIT.

IF I WAS TO DO WHAT HE'S DOING HE'D LOOSE IT.
BUT I'M ABOUT TO GO OUTSIDE!! CAUSE YOU PLAYING IN MY FACE

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What would u do? What should i do

So to try to explain this in the best way possible I have a very small apartment.
I opened my back door which leads directly to the laundry room of the building. Lately, I started bringing my son in the laundry room with me because he bangs on the door and tries to get out.

Today I opened the door to get my stuff out of the dryer. I saw I guess my neighbor putting stuff in the washer. It’s a very tight space so I closed the door and was planning on going back after he leave instead of crowding up the space with the baby. Plus I was in shorts and had no bra on, it was an older man.

I latched my door with the dead lock as I usually do so that I do not get locked out and I just left it that way without thinking about it.

I turned my back walk maybe about 5-7steps. My apartment is barely 15 steps front to back.
Turn around. Realize my baby is GONE he’s only 16 months!

I start yelling for him. I approach the door and I hear my son laughing…
The man had opened my door to lure my son in the laundry room with him without me knowing!!!!!!!

They were playing 🤯

He was there for no more then 20-30 seconds if that. It happened so fast, he doesn’t speak good English he’s polish
My door usually slams loud when closed, so this was done quietly…..


When I discovered that the man was with my son, I was trying to simply take my kid back in the house, but he continued on playing and I was yelling at my son that he shouldn’t be wondering without me.

No, first off I know for a fact, my son did not open the door number one. It’s very heavy and number two. He doesn’t know how to open doors yet.

And I asked the man straight out did my son open the door and he said no I did.

My son could get the door to open maybe an inch, I know that. So he must have done that and the man just decided to open it and bring my son with him.

I’m so outraged. Annoyed, uncomfortable. I live alone just me and my son.

What do I do?

I don’t know if he is maybe a visitor, I see his car sometimes but usually it’s another person who looks like him with a different car. Maybe my neighbors dad is my best bet.


Anyway. What should I do? Should I bring this to management. Should I approach my neighbor and figure out exactly who that was?

Thanks ladies wish me luck

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