I’m so horny ! But I don’t wanna be cheap . But also , who cares ? Lmao

Just a rant . But my baby daddy has been trying to fuck and I’m so horny . I’m about to give in . We separated just two months ago . I feel like I’ll look cheap sleeping with him but at the same time I’m so not in the mood for a new dick right now . Especially with all the weight gain since having baby , can’t imagine being naked in front of a new man urgh!

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Why did yall split?

he wants a traditional woman . I’m not a traditional woman . We tried to hang on and did for 4 years. Immediately baby came it got worse and harder . I also verbally abused him in the beginning of our relationship and he never forgave me or got over it .

Don’t do it girl . Just get a toy

Don’t give him that satisfaction!

right! He probably wants sex cause he can’t find any girl on social media to sleep with .

I was asking because I feel like it’s all circumstances that affect these things. I feel like this is completely up to you. It sounds like he loves you. I don’t really know your situation so I’m just assuming lol. So he may just be using sex as a way to still have some kind of something together. But then again he may also just be another typical man 🤣

right 😂 ever since I left he’s been trying to have sex. I’ve suggested he go on BLK or something and leave me alone but he keeps trying to. We were barely hanging on in the relationship, his mother moved in and that’s why I left. He’s talking about us doing therapy individually and MAYBE sometime in the future getting back together . So we’ll see..

I'd advise that you not sleep with him and instead work on yourself.

You verbally abused him, and he never "got over it", yeah you don't get over abuse.

yes you are right . I’ve decided to seek counseling.

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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