Me and my husband haven't seen in months. Was pregnant and he was not into that and then he started being a prick postpartum and so we didn't. Wonder if that means he's sleeping around or seeking emotional comfort from someone else. Thank you
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My husband went 8 months not being in the mood. I went 6 months early in our relationship.

Forever. There are men who are celibate and survive perfectly fine

No one NEEDS sex to survive. It's good for maintaining bonds, and definitely feels good. It can help with mental health and stress levels. But it's never a requirement for anyone, man or woman.

It's been 8 months for my partner and I because I seriously can't relax enough to even think about it.
I think us mums are at demand constant so when it comes to spouses it's hard to meet their needs.
Your other half will understand if he loves you, the time will come!

That’s how I knew he was going to be my husband. We were living together for 1 year and then he decided he wanted to take our religion seriously. So my daughter and I shared a room(from 1st marriage) and he had a room. He still took care of us financially and emotionally. We did everything together except intimacy. Eat, go out, beach days, parent. He still loved and treated me as someone special in his life. For a whole year! That’s how I knew he loved me for me and not for intimacy! We married that next year and it will be 4 years married January 20th, and 6 years together in March. Best man that has ever been in my life. We are now having our first child together! Some men just need more from a relationship than your body! I hope things go in a positive way for you.

I know men who have gone for years. One of my exes, who was a gorgeous 6'6 giant btw, didn't have sex for 6 years before I met him. So...a long time 😂

Testosterone levels are decreasing these days due to the food and chemicals in the water, pesticides and more

Depend on the man, my husband is usually really stressed out if he goes longer than 2 months, but some men can go without sex for years

Sex isn’t a need. If he wants release, he can sort himself out. My husband and I have gone long periods of time without sex. He NEVER sulks or guilts me about it.