Potty training

First time mom, and I was wondering what age did you start potty training? And what were some of the ways you helped your child with transitioning from diapers to pull-up (if that makes sense)

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We started introducing the idea around 2. But my son wasn’t ready till right after he turned 3. Going cold turkey worked for us!

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my daughter is 18 months and I was told you can start introducing at that age, I'm hoping she can, she's a fast learner with some stuff and dippers are getting expensive. With a second baby coming in August it'd help.

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Pull ups feel too much like diapers, after 21 nieces and nephews I will be going straight to underwear when we start training our twins here in a couple weeks (they'll be 22m when we start) we just got their potties and next check is undies! Pull ups will only be for sleeping times because night training is not a thing. They have to develop a hormone that helps them either hold their bladder or wake up to go pee if they need to, until that hormone develops its pointless to stress yourself out over night time dryness, this can develop anywhere from like 2-12 years old 🫶🏻 but I just saw that you're pregnant so I wanna give a HUGE warning that potty training while pregnant is soooo hard because they can sense the change of a new sibling already, so adding another huge change on top of it, In many cases babe just either won't at all, or they train, baby's born, and they regress and go back to many many accidents. So just definitely do your research and find the sweet spot for your family's needs 🩷🩷

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My first was potty at 18 months, and my second is 16 months now and she will be potty trained by 18 months as well. They are more than capable of doing it. We followed a three day training method, gonna try the oh crap! Method this time around. We did do pull-ups during nap and at night until she started to stay dry the whole nap and nighttime. My daughter wasn’t communicating a lot verbally at 18 months so we taught her the sign and that was very effective. My 16 months is way more verbal and already says potty and poop and tells us when she goes so I think she’s going to get it pretty quick

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thank you!!! I'm really that worried about the night time part my daughter pretty much doesn't even wet her diaper till early in the morning at this point which surprises me and her dad, I definitely will be looking into some things to help her with coping with changes.

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see my daughter is not very verbal either and I have been feeling like shit for it, she most she will say is mama, mommy, or dada or yeah, she says ow for some reason to let us know if shes hungry cause sometimes even after a big meal she still wants more. But I am hoping that once she figures out what her potty is for she will either go to it herself like she tries with her juice and blanket for naps. Or I at least hope she will figure out a way to communicate with us that she is wanting to use it.

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I didn't start until 3 yrs old with all of my children

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We used the oh crap method right around 22-25 months old and trained my first while I was pregnant with my second and that wasn't a problem for mine. My second wasn't very verbal at that age and it was fine. I did not expect either to tell me when they needed to go for a long time.

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I just recently started potty training my LO and she’s 2 going on three in August. She doesn’t get the concept of peeing in the potty just jet I believe she thinks it’s a toy. I’m still working with her so she can be out the diapers before her birthday.

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Mine was out of diapers during the day fully with only a few accidents a month at 2. We started at 18 months. She is almost 3 now and is completely out of diapers during nap and bed.

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Resentment and placing blame on partner

Firstly, please don’t judge me - I’m aware all my thoughts aren’t rational and I do already feel badly about them

I’m finding myself becoming easily frustrated, annoyed, and placing a lot of blame on my partner for many things. Now I’d get it if he was rubbish but he’s not - he has the baby straight away when he gets home from work, he lets me get ready and shower before he goes to work, he pitches in with the chores and gives me any time I ask for off. He doesn’t go out loads either.

I do a lot of the mental labour - realising we need more of and purchasing clothes, milk, groceries, deciding dinner, cooking, cleaning, thinking about what baby needs, etc.

However I just find myself annoyed and blaming him for so many things I find difficult. I know this isn’t fair, but it’s almost like I’m angry that he’s finding it easy and I’m not. Angry if I’ve just got the baby to sleep and he doesn’t think and closes doors to loudly. Angry when he doesn’t dress baby warm enough, or when he puts him in a car seat with a coat on. When he forgets a blanket or doesn’t wash his hands and plays with him. When hes snoring and I’ve just got the baby to drift off.

We have had many conversations and he has tried to take loads off me but it never feels like enough for me to stop being annoyed with him.

Am I experiencing some sort of post partum mental health issues? I find myself upset and crying a lot. any advice would help.

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THIS DUMB 🍑 MF

LET ME BREAK IT DOWN 🤣🤣

THIS MAN DRIVES AN ELECTRIC CAR WHERE HE CAN PLUG HIMSELF IN (NORMALLY DOES TO DO DOORDASH ETC)
AND IT HAD A SPOT TO WIRELESSLY CHARGE
SOME HOW WITH 4 HOURS OF WORKING HE DIDN'T EVEN MAKE 20 BUCKS TO WASH CLOTHS ANOTHER RED FLAG

TWO NIGHTS AGO
HE CLAIMS TO GO OUT TO WORK. HANGS UP ON ME MID CONVERSATION 👀👀

4 HOURS PAST I'M GETTING SLEEPY STILL HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM
IT'S LIKE 1:30AM I TEXT HIM NIGHT I'M MAD CONFUSED ALMOST AN HOUR LATER I ANT HEARD FROM HIM SO I CHECK MY TEXT.
THE SHIT SAYS "PHONE OFFLINE" AND SHOWS THE TIME FRAME MY TEXT DIDN'T SEND
SO I START CALLING TO CONFIRM CAUSE I THOUGHT SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HIM. HE'S BEEN IN 2 CAR ACCIDENTS 👀 NEITHER HIS FAULT

SO I GET FRANTIC MY GUY

3:14 ROLLS AROUND I CALL AGAIN SURPRISE HE PICKS UP.
CLAIMS HIS PHONE DIED WHILE HE'S HANGING OUT AND HAVING A VERY "GOOD" CONVERSATION. HE WON'T TELL ME WHERE HE'S AT OR WHO WITH. MIND YOU THIS MAN CHEATED ON ME WHILE I WAS 33 WEEKS PREGNANT.

SO AT THIS POINT I'M PISSED OFF AND I TELL HIM I'M HANGING UP CAUSE I LOOK STUPID BEING WORRIED.

HE TURNS AROUND WHILE NOT BEING AROUND THIS CHICK AND FINALLY TELLS ME ALL THE DETAILS.

BTW YES WE MIGHT BE POLY BUT HE'S POSTED HIMSELF AS SOLO POLY WHILE LIVING WITH ME!! HE THINKS I'M. STUPID WITH ALSO THIS SNEAKY SHIT.

IF I WAS TO DO WHAT HE'S DOING HE'D LOOSE IT.
BUT I'M ABOUT TO GO OUTSIDE!! CAUSE YOU PLAYING IN MY FACE

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What would u do? What should i do

So to try to explain this in the best way possible I have a very small apartment.
I opened my back door which leads directly to the laundry room of the building. Lately, I started bringing my son in the laundry room with me because he bangs on the door and tries to get out.

Today I opened the door to get my stuff out of the dryer. I saw I guess my neighbor putting stuff in the washer. It’s a very tight space so I closed the door and was planning on going back after he leave instead of crowding up the space with the baby. Plus I was in shorts and had no bra on, it was an older man.

I latched my door with the dead lock as I usually do so that I do not get locked out and I just left it that way without thinking about it.

I turned my back walk maybe about 5-7steps. My apartment is barely 15 steps front to back.
Turn around. Realize my baby is GONE he’s only 16 months!

I start yelling for him. I approach the door and I hear my son laughing…
The man had opened my door to lure my son in the laundry room with him without me knowing!!!!!!!

They were playing 🤯

He was there for no more then 20-30 seconds if that. It happened so fast, he doesn’t speak good English he’s polish
My door usually slams loud when closed, so this was done quietly…..


When I discovered that the man was with my son, I was trying to simply take my kid back in the house, but he continued on playing and I was yelling at my son that he shouldn’t be wondering without me.

No, first off I know for a fact, my son did not open the door number one. It’s very heavy and number two. He doesn’t know how to open doors yet.

And I asked the man straight out did my son open the door and he said no I did.

My son could get the door to open maybe an inch, I know that. So he must have done that and the man just decided to open it and bring my son with him.

I’m so outraged. Annoyed, uncomfortable. I live alone just me and my son.

What do I do?

I don’t know if he is maybe a visitor, I see his car sometimes but usually it’s another person who looks like him with a different car. Maybe my neighbors dad is my best bet.


Anyway. What should I do? Should I bring this to management. Should I approach my neighbor and figure out exactly who that was?

Thanks ladies wish me luck

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Parenting 24/7 is harder than going to work full time?

I’m having a debate with my partner as he’s done nothing to help since. Our 14 month old was born, I’ve done it all alone all day and all night. He gets a break when he comes in from work all night I never get a break
He try’s to tell me it’s harder going to work full time 5 days a week than parenting ALONE 24/7?
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Struggling with IMMATURE dad 😪

Had issues pre- baby, drug use, drinking nearly every weekend, viscous cycle calms down, behaves then back to it. Calms down again wants to change, wants to be be a good dad and loves his daughter so stops going out.. but tonight out of no where, goes to football wins a game and turns his phone off so I can’t even get hold of him. What do you with this sort of behaviour? I feel so stuck and feel like I can’t get out of this relationship as he can be so manipulative. Struggling financially so he’s also spending money we don’t have and need for our baby.
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