hello everyone

what's y'all routine on self care?
I haven't been self caring myself lately, my self care I usually go to the nail salon every once a month, get my eyebrows, upper lip wax, nails and toes gel fix and I try to plan once a yr to color and cutt my hair a new style

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in our community

How would you feel

I was abused throughout my pregnancy by the child's father , it got so bad he kicked me to the ground in the streets . I chipped my tooth and u started having contractions luckily I didn't go into labor.
Yes police was called he was locked up for four months .
Fast forward the child has been born he only comes around when he feels like it and has never provided for the child.

I want him out our lives what should I do ??

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Friends

Anyone want to be friends? Ive had very little luck on this app. Looking for friends that can hold conversations!

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Sex Pregnant vs postpartum

The BEST sex of my life happened the month before my baby was born. With other partners I was rarely interested in sex & with my partner now I love them dearly but sex is just…hard. But while pregnant sex was so easy. I could easily receive without getting u. My head.

Although I have a very high sex drive & deep desire for sex. He is the best sex I ever had but I am worried postpartum I won’t be able to have the sex drive I had pregnant. (backwards yes i know haha)

I genuinely want to get my rocks off like before & please this man but I am so so so nervous. He’s been overseas & comes home in 4 months. Please help 😭

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So drained How do people cope??

I am exhausted. I have a 22 month old who is super active and doesn’t leave me alone. I’m running the house, cooking, cleaning, washing, main caregiver to my child, working mom, and doing a side business, juggling my family and my in-laws.

I am shattered. How do people cope? I feel I have 0 time to myself. My body aches.

Anyone have any tips on how to juggle everything and actually have a day or an evening to myself ??

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Pelvic Floor Exercises

My husband and I did the deed for the first time since I had our second baby and I can just tell I am just not as tight down there and it immediately humbled me🥲🥲

Are there any recommendations on a good YouTube video/channel that has pelvic floor exercises I can start doing??

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