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I was abused throughout my pregnancy by the child's father , it got so bad he kicked me to the ground in the streets . I chipped my tooth and u started having contractions luckily I didn't go into labor.
Yes police was called he was locked up for four months .
Fast forward the child has been born he only comes around when he feels like it and has never provided for the child.

I want him out our lives what should I do ??

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See if you can get a restraining order. If you can’t, court. I know court sometimes isn’t ideal so hoping you can get a restraining order. Hopefully he will decide on his own that he doesn’t want to be in your/your child’s life (I know that’s harsh but..)

I would move far, far away and block him on everything and close down all social media profiles, change your number and only give your address/new number to your parents.

There’s not a chance in hell I would ever have such a specimen around my child, regardless of whether he is the father. He is violent. He could have killed you both. Get advice from Women’s Aid in how to get away and change your identity.

Ooo yes agree with Neena!!!!

Can you go to a women’s shelter? They usually have resources to help you start a new life and protect you from him figuring out if you are there.

Is he in the birth certificate? Does he have any legal rights - shared custody etc?

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I feel so alone..

I have everything most people don’t have.. a house, amazing kids, a car, food, a dog, a good job.. but I feel so alone. My relationship isn’t great and hasn’t been for a long time.. I’m hurt. I’m isolated. I’m lonely. I internalise everything. I’m not acknowledged. I hardly even exist.. the good things I do get pushed aside & ignored and then I’m treated like I don’t do anything.. I go above and beyond ALL the time.. I’m not even half the woman I really am because I just feel like an unsupported waste of space..

Am I wrong for being in a pissy mood?

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I need help

So I got offered my dream job as a teaching assistant and my partner is refusing to let me get my dbs check done it cost £61.30 if anyone would be so kind to help me out is appreciate it and I’d pay you back double as soon as I got my first pay check I’ll even send evidence that I’ve payed for if and keep you updated on when I’ll pay you back. I’m trying to get out of a toxic and potentially abusive relationship and keep my baby safe

Any ideas lol 😅

Hi
So currently 22 week pregnant me and my partner have sex atleast 3 to 4 times a weeks ' wee have changed up positions make easier with my grown tummy ' so my partner have has been sitting on the edge off the bed while I ride it 😆 it feels really good but my partner is lasting no longer than 5 Minutes so blink and no time its over for me ovbs annoying cause he would normally lasted 15 -20 mins which is good for me if ya onkw what I mean lol but he now wants this position all the time 😑 im wondering why now hes not lasting as long so I said to him last night after wee got done you come really quick I blink and its over so now hes huffing with me and said oh well wee won't do that position again ' anyone any experience off this ' x

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