Returning to work but baby is clingy

My girl who is going to be 9 months old soon is super clingy towards me. If I pass her over to her dad she starts crying and wants to come straight back to me. I start my KIT days at work next week before officially going back and im dreading leaving her incase she's going to cry everytime I leave her with her dad. Shes ebf and goes with me everywhere so im worried she be really upset. I do shift work so my husband will have to put her to bed at times and not sure how his gonna manage. Any advice or tips?

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