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6 kids girl he needs to leave you alone and respect your boundaries, I hope that man give you a non-sexual massage soon, you deserve the world after giving him 6 beautiful babies

jenna i didn’t push out 6 babies i have 2 of my own and 4 step kids and i just became a grandma at 31 2 month ago my 18 year old step son had his first daughter ! but i have a austic adhd step son with other health problems and now my 5 year old daughter is doing testing for adhd austim found out she can’t hear out of her right so going thru a lot

i saw someone on here who went to message me go right away some how my messages on here got deleted 🤦‍♀️

I'm confused. You like going down on him but not giving him blow jobs?

How old are your children?

Yes, it would be annoying. Have you spoken to him?

like i like to suck i’m trying not to be so graphic . i like to suck til he gets hard then you know have sex when i give him blow jobs he don’t do anything to be i just lay there and do it and it gets boring but he constaly want me to do it and i have talk to him he is bull headed . but he don’t like to go down on me so how is that fair is my question lol our sec life is great i have no compliments it just the blow job part lol

my children are 10 and 5 they have different dads so i co parent i have my 5 year old more then i do my 10 year old i also have 4 step kids 18 who lives on his own with his own child , 17 year old son , 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son

So all your kids are in school?

Ah, that makes sense. I'd have another conversation with him and be very firm that you are uncomfortable with him bringing up blow-jobs every day, and he needs to stop. This is a boundary for you. Be clear, be firm, hold this boundary.

I would create like a schedule or something. But also you have to have something for yourself too. Like maybe do trade offs and let him know like I’m exhausted and I would love some time to myself even if it’s going to the store by myself, getting a massage or nails done, whatever that is for you. And if he can agree and create a space where you can have some time alone to just be by yourself then make some kind of arrangement. You also have to please your man. Even though you have kids you also need to prioritize him and his needs and he needs to prioritize yours otherwise your marriage won’t last and someone will feel resentment and either it won’t work out or someone will step out. But there should be conversations all the time to figure out ways to be able to please each other.

Have you talked to him about this? Also it's not fair that he wants oral all the time but doesn't like giving you oral.

Sounds sex addiction-ish . Manipulative and weird mind games. Say, I'll go down on you if you go down on me first.. just to see his reaction. Start acting like him maybe and see if he says anything. But either way, I am getting bad vibe from what you have said here

he a tow truck driver he is always gone so sometimes he is tired to have sex so he wants me to give him blow jobs but my thing is he gets home anywhere between 1 to 6am in the morning from work and i’m already sleep i’m not in the mood for anything lol . but then he isn’t in the mood either when he wakes up in the morning cause he is tired and cracky i have to find something that will help both of us . because the sex isn’t bad at all it’s just oral stuff that bothers me sometimes it just gets under my skin at a point , is all