Is one whole weetabix enough for my little boy’s breakfast?

He’ll happily eat a whole weetabix with warm milk but refuses anything else.

I always offer fruit and yogurt and sometimes some toast or a crumpet too but he just refuses anything else.

I worry it’s not enough because same of my friend’s children, of the same age, eat LOADS for breakfast and when I compare I just worry he’s not getting enough.

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You have to remember every child is different. My son also has one weetabix for breakfast and if I do another half he normally doesn’t eat it. He may have the odd biscuits after but not all the time .

My LG will have either 1 or 1 and a half weetabix, depending on her day but I think the average serving size anyway is 1 weetabix. Some children also don’t have a big breakfast appetite!
My LG has a big breakfast appetite but then lunch is hit and miss and usually snacky bits x

thank you for the reassurance. I know every child is different.

It just gets me down sometimes because I try so hard with his food and it’s not just breakfast, it’s every meal. He’s so fussy and doesn’t eat very much.

It doesn’t help that I seem to be surrounded by mum’s with children who love their food and eat everything and anything!

Honestly I’m in the exact same boat . I have days where he won’t eat a lot al all and then days he will eat loads. Especially when he has a tooth trying to come through he doesn’t want to eat anything. I started worrying about his teeth not coming through cause every I know had kids with loads of teeth and he only got his first one a month and a half ago. He is 18 month in 5 days and he only has 4

My lo eats 1 - 1 & 1/2 Weetabix. Sometimes he leaves a few bites, sometimes he eats the whole thing.
I do also offer fruit as well which he usually eats but I would say as long as he is refusing things you know he likes, he is probably just not hungry x

I know this feeling. I try very hard not to compare because then I feel sad. I’ve literally made so many types of food for my little boy and he’ll say all done. He eats 1 weetabix for breakfast every single day. A few bites of toast if I’m lucky. Forget about eggs, beans, waffles, pancakes.
Then same for other meals. On a really bad day he’ll ask for weetabix for tea again and it’s soul destroying because I love food and cooking and I can’t believe he doesnt like eating. But we are doing the best we can so we shouldn’t beat ourselves up. Maybe one day they’ll grow to be foodies!

Honestly 1 weetabix would be a lot for my boy! He doesn’t entertain breakfast very well at all x

My 17 month old has 1 whole weatabix mixed with mashed banana & strawberries this morning and that’s all he had until lunch time it filled him right up😂
But if I give him toast, yoghurt fruit etc he’s always still hungry 🤷🏼‍♀️

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AITA?

This isn't a major issue, just wondering if I'm being a bit of an asshole.

• I do shift work, 5 out of 7 days, full-time.
• My partner works from home (mostly, sometimes he goes into the office) M-F, full-time.

Anyway, whenever I have a day off during the week he gets in his feelings when I make myself food (breakfast and lunch) but not him. His reason is he's working, I'm not - Which is fair but I've asked him how many times on a weekend has he gotten up, on his day off and made me breakfast and a lunch to take with me to work? You guessed it, 0.

So basically, just because I'm at home I don't think the responsibility to feed him should automatically fall on me when he manages to feed himself just fine while I'm at work.

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