Pissed off

So my son’s birthday party is tomorrow. I’m a stay at home mom in the day, working in the evenings. I legit took my kids to school, went straight to Costco with my toddler, dollar store, took a check to my landlord, just running some insane errands, and by the time I did all that… I had to pick my kids up from two different schools. Came home to make dinner and went straight to work. When I got out of work, I was obviously exhausted. My house is not messy but it did need some light cleaning and here I am cleaning the heck out of every room before the party tomorrow. My husband looks around and says “what do you need help with?” But he said it with a tone like he hoped I didn’t tell him anything. I answered “look around, it’s your house too.. we need the help” he said “oh thanks for the smart remark” and I’m like “sorry but it’s not that hard, do what you can pls” ANYWAYS, he cleaned the dishes, left lots of food particles in the sink & went straight to play ps5. I’m legit sitting here at 1am thinking whether I should do the goodie bags or fold the clean laundry on my couch and honestly I’m so exhausted idk what to do. It pisses me off because he legit said yesterday that we had some light cleaning to do, making empty promises. I think what irks me more is that he’s cracking up at some reels on Instagram while I’m legit sweating from cleaning. I told him “ must be nice to be on your phone” he left to the room to sleep. Boy byeeee. Like part of me is like “be nice, he asked you what you needed help with” but the other part of me is like “dude just act” LOL