Postpartum depression

How can I not be so sad when my own son dad won’t come in his life he saying it’s not his responsibility I’m hurt asf I’m sad asf I need yall to help me yall are the things I can go tho I don’t have moms friends

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All you can do is be the best Mom you can be. You can't force a relationship with his father. Just stay neutral and don't badmouth the dad either. So your kiddo can grow up with nothing but positivity, people who love him, and draw his own conclusions about who his biodad really is.

It’s makes me sad asf I’m so sad because I loved him but he fuck someone else behind my back that’s where I stop look for him to be around

@Annastasia that is a hard betrayal to recover from, but you can do it. Know your worth, dig deep, and write him off. Raise your child to be a good man, and that will be your best revenge.

Girl I’m sorry ! It IS his responsibility! You deserve a supportive coparent and to be treated with respect

Thank you guys so much to help me and be there for me no one will understand till ur mom

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Can someone pls help i keep making this post and nobody is responding

My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

Postpartum

I’m only 3 days postpartum (FTM) and already have extremely bad anxiety. I’m crying every night, as I think of another night of no sleep. My baby will not settle in his cot, he cries every moment we put him down unless in his chair rocker. So me and my partner are having to alternate after 3/4 hours of being awake with him downstairs. I’m trying everything to get him to settle. It’s a load of overwhelming stress. I’m 23, I was desperate for a baby and now I have one and feel completely useless. I miss it just being me and my partner.

When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Crawling

Did anyone’s little one start crawling yet? I feel like we are falling behind but really have no idea. I’m trying to introduce more floor time but it’s been rough because of having hardwood floors and our 80 lb oblivious to life dog. I got us a carpet for the living room and trying to put the dog out more when the weather allows. She sits like a pro and will roll to get the things she needs😅 but no real signs of crawling yet.

I bloody hate reflux!

How much milk would you say this is?( after a 6oz bottle) My 3 month old is bunged up, full of yet another cold and it's made her reflux worse.

She's already on gaviscon but that's the most shes ever spat up in one go. She's also been teething for the last few weeks too 🙄