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Does anybody else do this?

I know that this is an insecurity thing and that it’s childish and sucks whatever but does anybody else swipe left on people just because they’re too pretty to be around your husband or boyfriend? Doesn’t it just suck because I would love to be friends, but men are dogs and you just never know. 😂😂😂

Earn extra cash

Any mums on here know how to earn any extra cash? I'm going into winter hours at work in November and need some extra money to get me through. The only time I get without my girl is at nursery and that's when I'm at my job and husband's a farmer so works crazy hours. I was tempted to get an evening job but even then, husband could be home anywhere from 5.30-7.30pm. I appreciate any help 🙏🏼

Misogyny crisis

We are expecting a little boy, and can’t wait!
That said, I’ve had a big wobble this week! Anyone else gone into a bit of a pit of despair regarding the current misogyny crisis, the state of the world’s social climate and just generally everything in the news?
I feel under so much pressure to raise a respectful, emotionally adjusted and broad minded boy. I’m so lucky as my partner will be the best role model, but everything that boys are exposed to in today’s world is so scary 😞
I know it’s a problem bigger than any of us and there aren’t any answers right now, just reaching out for solidarity of future boy mums who might be feeling the same 🩵

How can I share this with my husband?

I wanna tell my husband about a way that he's making me feel, but I want to say it in a way he's not gonna flip it or get defensive. So some back story our sex life is ok but not as frequent as HE would like it. I haven't ever really been a sexual person like it's good, but I truly feel I could go without it for the rest of my life. Plus with some feelings of resentment towards him and having such a busy life and stress on me I'm often not in the mood or just exhausted. Now it really hit me last night that I often don't do the things I want or enjoy when I finally have free time after the kids go to bed, and the reason is because he feels like anytime that is finally free is our time and we could be being intimate or whatever. But that leaves me usually feeling like if I say I'm too tired to have sex then I should be too tired to crochet or read a book, etc. so I should just not do what I want and go to bed because otherwise I have to hear him say that I'm just not prioritizing him. And I just don't feel like I should look at the time and see that I have an hour to myself finally but before I can give it to myself I need to give HIM some of that time also, usually leaving me with no time or like 10min. How can I tell him that this is how I feel, it's been giving me anxiety for the last 5 years living like this.

No Contact with Family

I’m 3 years no contact with my immediate family and wondering if you ever get to a point of just not caring anymore?
There’s nothing that would cause me to rekindle contact with them, but some days you just need your mum, but not your mum.. if that makes any sense 🫣

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