Biting and pinching while breastfeeding

My 1 year old keeps biting and pinching! What do I do?! It hurts so bad 😭 I am not in to spanking or hurting her back

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Last was a nip and twister and the one before that was a nibbler so I feel your pain.
Immediately put her aside and walk away. You’ll have to do it maybe 3-5 times but they catch on pretty quickly. Unless they’re a sleepy nipper (for soothing themselves.) then you gotta try swap out for a blanket or finger.

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I'm following to see if anyone has good advice. I stopped breastfeeding my first child after 13 months because I couldn't stand the biting any longer. My nipples looked like they went through a meat grinder.

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My baby is the same, she will have weeks where she bites and then like a month or two with no bitting.. I think is triggering the teething phase. The lactation consultant said that you should act super dramatic, placing your baby in a safe space and leaving the room. And honestly I’ve done it and it hasn’t work a bit. The other advice was to flicker in the cheek… it didn’t work either. Hope it works with you. If so please let me know that at least it worked for a Mom.

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My daughter does the same, I always say ā€œow! No thank you. That hurts mommyā€ and I hold her hand instead and say ā€œgentle touchesā€ and give her kisses to reinforce the gentle behavior, she’s gotten a lot better at not doing it, now she just rubs my boobs 🤣

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My baby does the same too. She doesn’t bite on purpose but has been doing it more. I usually say ow that hurts mommy and then she’ll get upset. I take a break and wait for her to calm down. She always has a wandering hand when she nurses. She’ll pinch, poke, grab, and all that. I’ll have marks all over me. Haven’t figured out how to handle it yet😭

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If you want to quit just quit girll, my son for some reason has to bite me almost everytime he latches and then pinches me on my boobs or my arms and it drives me nuts my first she was an angel, of course for a little she’s do the bite and pull thing but grew out of it and I breastfed her two months shy of two years but my son he’s cut off at a year which is in like two weeks idc lol he’ll live, when I did it with my daughter I was already planning to stop but she got a stomach bug and she threw up every time she’d breastfeed so I had to stop for a few days of course she was trippen for a couple nights and then after she acted as if she never new she was breastfed haha

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