Fibromyalgia mama

I’ve been trying to coop with being a new mom. My body has been shutting down more than usual. My hands are cramping. This weather has been hard on me. The fact that I cry in pain and still have to take care of my newborn. I’m just overly tired or I can’t sleep

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Infected c-section site and cold

I’m concerned as I’ve been on antibiotics for an infected c-section site. But have gotten a cold/flu like symptoms now (cough, sore throat, runny nose and headache). Having googled (worst thing I know) it says it could be possible sepsis, I have an appointment Tuesday for a review of previous antibiotics given. Would it be recommend to call maternity unit due to gp being closed over the weekend or do I wait till Monday to see if I can get an appointment then instead of Tuesday.

Any advice would be appreciated

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Midwife appointment

I am 37 + 4. My last midwife appointment was when i was 36 weeks. My NEXT appointment is booked for 41 weeks with my midwife and nothing in between? Im so confused. Is this normal?

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C-section help please 🙏

Hi everyone !
I had my appointment yesterday 38+5 weeks which went abit sideways to say the least 🙈
I was meant to be getting induced next week but little man has apparently jumped from 8lbs 6 to nearly 11pounds in 2 weeks (no gestational diabetes)
I got told I had to have a C-section instead now and have never had one so am flapping like a headless chicken 😂 what essentials did you all need / wish you had after a C-section please 🙏 any tips welcome as I’m currently just a blubbering mess as it wasn’t how was planned 😂😂

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Flying pregnant

I’ve just found out I’m pregnant just over 4 weeks I go away at the beginning of November I’ll be roughly 10-11 weeks I won’t have had a scan yet (unlikely) I’m not even sure if I will have had my first midwife appointment by then🤔 am I still okay to fly? It’s a 4 hour flight.
Should I get a private scan to confirm everything is okay before hand?

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Going into labour

Is there anything that actually works to try and go into labour?

I'm willing to give things a go as I'm so fed up now 😂 aiming for a vbac so trying to avoid c section if I can 🤞🏻 but have agreed to section if I get to due date and nothing has happened 🙈

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Waters leaking or just wee

How do i tell the difference? I got up and leaked a bit went for a wee and then leaked again straight after, i led down in bed moved my leg and leaked and stood up and leaked again. Im scared im not ready🤣🤦🏽‍♀️ive got no pains or anything

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