I am curious how vaginal penetration actually feels for most women. I have vaginismus, so I have no way of knowing, but I’ve heard that the only real pleasurable part for women is clitoral stimulation, and vaginal doesn’t particularly bring pleasure. I have heard different things.
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It depends- if there is sciatic or irritation / pelvic floor issues then penetration isn’t as comfortable, and many times right after the period. It usually feels best during ovulation. Doing pelvic floor strengthening and relaxation exercises helps as well as using dilators. Both areas can bring equal amounts of pleasure but the nerve endings inside can get more complicated because of the nerve complex happening and Menstrual cycle.

Based on speaking to some of my friends, not every woman experiences sex the same. Personally I get good stimulation both ways, but vaginal penetration takes longer for me to reach O. So for me if the guy lasts a short amount of time, it takes multiple rounds for me to get there. Definitely wouldn’t say it’s not pleasurable for me though.