You ladies may not believe me… but I had a tongue tie revision surgery at 38 years old

My surgeon said it was one of the most severe cases of tongue tie he had ever seen and he was shocked no one had ever caught it. He was shocked that I was able to speak so plainly. I went to him because I had been diagnosed with sleep apnea. After my surgery my sleep apnea was gone.

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I believe you! Happened to my colleague too at 32. It’s a much bigger surgery when you’re an adult! Both my girls were tongue tied when born (70/80%) so glad I had them revised early on as it helped so much with feeding! It was never a thing when we were kids bcos doctors weren’t looking for it?!

My mother is a nurse and she was so horrified that she missed it.

But she said it made sense because I always made a strange gulping noise when I swallowed

I had sleep apnea I couldn’t breathe or swallow properly.

All I know is now I don’t have to use a cpap anymore

Do you do any therapy before or after??? I have toyed with getting it done as I also have sleep apnea and swallowing issues. It’s funny I thought everyone’s tongue sat at the bottom of mouth. My baby girl was also born with a mild one that we had taking care of at 3 weeks

My husband's grandma was told at 80 she had a severe tongue tie and she says that it explained a bunch of issues throughout her life. But she's so old and has survived with it for this long that they wouldn't release it

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When did you circumcise your baby?
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Did you wait a certain amount of time or have it done immediately?
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Can someone pls help i keep making this post and nobody is responding

My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

Postpartum

I’m only 3 days postpartum (FTM) and already have extremely bad anxiety. I’m crying every night, as I think of another night of no sleep. My baby will not settle in his cot, he cries every moment we put him down unless in his chair rocker. So me and my partner are having to alternate after 3/4 hours of being awake with him downstairs. I’m trying everything to get him to settle. It’s a load of overwhelming stress. I’m 23, I was desperate for a baby and now I have one and feel completely useless. I miss it just being me and my partner.

When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Crawling

Did anyone’s little one start crawling yet? I feel like we are falling behind but really have no idea. I’m trying to introduce more floor time but it’s been rough because of having hardwood floors and our 80 lb oblivious to life dog. I got us a carpet for the living room and trying to put the dog out more when the weather allows. She sits like a pro and will roll to get the things she needs😅 but no real signs of crawling yet.

Night time routine

Heya, my 3 week old daughter is currently exclusively breastfed and I’m not pumping. Can anyone recommend the best way to share the load with my partner? At the moment I’m doing all the feeds/burbs/settling and my partner is sleeping through which obviously isn’t sustainable, I’m trying to work out the best way to get him involved. Any advice very much appreciated!