New Year Eve Planning Advice

Hi everyone! 😊

I wanted to ask for some ideas and advice — what are your plans for New Year’s Eve this year? Are there any kid-friendly activities or places you’d recommend for a 3-year-old?

We’re in Seattle, and this is our first time doing New Year’s Eve with a toddler, so we’re trying to figure out what works best. Whether it’s an early countdown, something low-key and family-friendly, or just staying in — I’d love to hear what other families usually do!

Thanks so much in advance for sharing your ideas ❤️🎉

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