Need friends

Hi there! I’ve been in milso groups before, and was in chats but as time went on it’s like everyone disbursed again. I am in serious need of some friends, specially military spouses as I see it easier to be understood. If anyone would like to be friends let me know! I have a 3 month old so I’m at home with him every day while my daughter is in school and my husband is at work. We can text, snap, IG dm; whatever is better and easier. 😊

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Am I just a horrible person?

I need help. I feel like I am a horrible person. I am in a relationship for 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby. Our relationship always has been very friendly almost platonic. I really care about him and he's a good man and a good father. But our sex life always was non existent. We had sex maybe 4 times in the 3 years and 1 of them I ended up pregnant. Ever since having a baby we are having more arguments and I feel like I'm falling out of love. I recently met a man and I feel extremely attracted to him and I know he wants me. Now I am not a cheater so I would never do anything with this man while in a relationship. However I really want to. Now I don't want to ruin my child's life by splitting up with my partner. Also there is the thing of comfort in this relationship. Also what if it wouldn't work out with the other man? I feel horrible because I feel like it's unfair to my partner but I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated.

Bi curious

I realized lately I’ve been attracted to females to the point where I only watch that type of content! Trying to figure if it’s a phase. I am married but haven’t mentioned to partner

Why is it so hard to make friends now?

Is it just me or when did people stop being so friendly. It honestly used to be so easy to make some good friends. People used to call or just make last minute plans and come by and just hang out. I feel like everything needs to be so planned out for even a simple phone call. Are there any SAHM looking for some friends? I love motherhood but I honestly just miss having some girlfriends to just hang out with it can be lonely at times. Looking for some genuine friendships.

Prenatal Vitamins

Hi everyone, I would love to know what prenatal vitamins you use and would recommend - just found out I’m pregnant so need to move from fertility to prenatal ones but am trying to work out the best one to go to

Needing some advice/help😩

Hi I’m a 25 y/o mum of 1 I’ve been with my partner/baby dad since we were 15/16, since before I was pregnant my partner has kept on asking me if he can “finish” in my mouth, now there has been a couple of occasions where he has finished in my mouth after a blowjob but not told me he was going to (to clarify I have let him once and I didn’t like it) but lately he’s been asking more and more and even jokingly said “we’re not having sex again till you do it” but last night he messaged me and told me it doesn’t matter anymore and just to leave it I asked why he said “because you’re never gonna do it” but yet I always say I don’t want to cos I don’t like it, and since last night something just feels off, but I also now feel really bad like I’m being a bitch, someone please give me some advice

Should I apply or not?

I’ve been looking for jobs since August last year. Something that works for me and the kids and is local or work from home.
I’ve been having rejection after rejection before any interviews. I work in sales part time but need full time my current role doesn’t offer more hours unless I’m available for weekends which im not.

One of my ex colleagues posted this job opening, I sent it to my husband and this is what he says. There was other jobs that I could have applied for too in these last few months but he’s so negative all the time, I feel like he’s holding me back and not being supportive. I do all the kids drop off and pick ups. And now he wants me to start paying some of the bills. How can I find work local that’s enough for me to drop my kids off and pick them up up and do house work? Should I apply for a dinner lady role?