I have recently become more aware of birthing centres as an option and wondered what our closest ones were? I think there is one in Andover and Winchester? Anybody had any experiences or reviews? TIA š«¶
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I live in Andover and I'm 25 weeks pregnant, it's my nominated option but they completely rebuilt it and have been having staffing problems so unsure if and when it'll be 'up and running' hoping in time for my baby boy to come as I live suuuuper close and it'd be so convenient. Second choice is Basingstoke I've heard some amazing things about theirs :)

I live in Andover, and had my little boy last year. Before falling pregnant, I dreamed of having a natural birth or a water birth. My pregnancy ended up being consultant led, but I still had the option. I chose to go to Winchester on the off chance something went wrong, as Andover doesnāt have an emergency unit. During labour, I got offered a water birth but declined as Iād gotten comfortable in my birthing suite and didnāt want to cause myself any unnecessary stress. Iām glad I chose to stay as ended up with a back to back labour, ventouse assisted delivery and a episiotomy with bubba going to the NICU for a week. Listen to your gut and make a decision thatās right for you.

I had my little one in Winchester birthing centre and the midwife I had was lovely. My LO is my first and the midwife made sure I had all options available to me (however I was 8cm when I got there so was not allowed epidural but thankfully I didnāt want that I wanted as natural as possible). The midwife was lovely and even gave my partner ideas on how to support me and told him when there was blood as heās quite squimish and doesnāt like blood. I was classed as high risk due to have low PAPP A but was still offered a room in the birth centre. I had my LO at 1:14am and was discharged at 5am. I did have to return for a newborn screen later that day but there was the option to stay the until the morning on the ward
Is there a line here vvvvvfl obviously or am I going mad?!
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So babys head has been down into pelvis now for around 2 weeks and midwife today said its fixed and wont be coming back up. My last labour (first pregnancy) was induced so i have not been through spontaneous labour before.
My due date is in 3 weeks (16th october) but I have been having braxton hicks randomnly on and off for a few weeks now.
What are peoples previous experiences with head being fixed and can it be a sign I might come early?
I dont finish work for another 2 days and still so much to do at home! Keeping everything crossed it stays put š

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Iām really torn between going ahead with an induction at 39 weeks or changing my mind and having a planned C-section, and Iād love to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
Iām a first-time mum and originally wanted a planned C-section, mainly because I have a strong family history of very fast labours. After speaking to my consultant, I became more comfortable with trying an induction.
The proposed plan is 39+0, potentially skipping the balloon if my cervix is favourable, having an epidural early, breaking my waters and giving things around 1ā2 hours to get going. Iāve been told that if thereās little/no cervical progress, we can discuss a C-section, and that I can change my mind about continuing at any point.
My biggest concern is that I REALLY want to avoid forceps/ventouse. If an assisted delivery was being recommended and there was time to safely do a C-section, I would personally prefer a C-section.
Iām worried about a situation where I reach the point of wanting/needing a C-section, but the unit is very busy and thereās a delay getting to theatre Iāve also just had an 11-hour wait in maternity triage for leaking fluid/reduced movements. I completely understand that women who are seriously unwell have to be prioritised, and Iāve had some lovely experiences with the maternity team, but seeing how stretched the unit was has made me question how accessible that āPlan Bā would actually be during an induction.

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Is it only me or do we see the true faces of our loved ones family and friends after birth..!

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Now I feel guilty for not feeling bad. But I donāt feel good or bad either. I was excited and baby was planned. But now I just feel nothing. Is this normal
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It's looking like I will have a planned c section at 39 weeks, I am terrified! It's such a common procedure but the fact it's major surgery really scares me.
What are people's experiences?
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